My current combo is
Duty touchlow rom (oldish one)
finger friendly friends
TomTom
Opera mini
Pocket music
Windows mobile live
Google maps
Picsel browser
Vigo (RSS tool)
Yahoo Go
Quick menu (very handy)
And various other stuff. You get quiet a lot of stuff in with dutys rom, including a touchflow cube. I also have a rather nice auto today screen changer. What I really like is the way it works with windows activesync, with a bit of fiddling it syncs everything, and will drop a music on to the phone for you to listen to, either random or playlists. I use my one with wireless bluetooth headphones, these also give comtrol of music and calls. Theres also some cabs doing the rounds for voice command, haven tried it on this phone, but I did have it on my universal. ANother great bit of software, very little learning and gives control of phone functions using voice recogniton, rather than you recording names etc, trully excellent software that blows every other phone I have played with away, especially the iphone. I currently have my email sent to my phone mobipush
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