Originally Posted by Ningen 
and than the loading screen comes... I see myself loading but other players dont and suddenly im in the game and i cant do annything and the other players said i disconnected.
That generally indicates either a connection problem or some sort of de-sync between you and the other players. Make sure you've got
these ports forwarded to your machine if your playing behind a router, and make sure your not using any cracks or anything like that.