well to start with I would stop using the word 'j00' surely thats racalist towards jews
i would go with number one, others wise u will end up being all sad and miserable and jelous incase she gets back with her ex or then meets someone else. she might just click into place and it works out for u, but dont put her up on a shelf and worship her. plenty or girls to enjoy whilst she makes up her mind. and if u dont see anyone else she may think that no-one wants u because you have worts or something
goodluck