Thanks for the previous input to all who helped point me towards my next family car (growing family etc).
I first drove the Nissan Qashqai 1.5 dci, since i liked the exterior styling. Overall, the engine was quite 'rattly' both in terms of noise, and vibration in the steering wheel. Some body roll around roundabouts, although ok, and drive ok otherwise. It actually felt quite well screwed together overall. Biggest problem however, which reminded of my car-before-last (BMW mini) was that despite the high driving positiion, the roof height was actually quite low and despite me being on mildly tall (6ft exactly),I had to duck down in order to look up to see traffic lights - not a great experience, and makes you feel like its a cramped car
The Skoda was next, and it was lovely - I suppose that driving the 'Elegance' spec coloured the view to some degree (although I tried to ignore that aspect), but the 2.0 diesel even in the bottom 110 horsepower mode worked well (i wouldnt call it quick, but it was good, solid and did the job). Clever seating, very solid feeling, nice to drive, great visibility - it even looks great in real life, apart from perhaps from directly front on, where the bonnet isnt the best. Great driving position, the steering felt precise and connected to the road. Overall it left a lovely experience.
The 3008 (1.6 diesel, 6 speed) next... and wow. In a bad way. My expectations were high based almost entirely on 'What Car's best car of 2010 etc, and i have to say that it rolled, didnt take pot holes well, my friend and dad (who were also along in all cars as another perspective) reported feeling sick in the back, and when i went around a roundabout, in damp conditions, at 20 miles per hour, the rear slid out. The Skoda, on the same roundabout, had clung on tightly at 30 mph. What didnt help was that it felt like the steering wheel was connected to the road via some trifle - not a very reasurring feeling. On the plus side, the Peugeot had lots and lots of equipment, but our over-riding view was "How much of this is going to fail over the next 3 years". A very, very poor experience. All this, and it looks like a pig ! The only really positives were a well designed boot (the false floor as well as a folding down tail-gate to sit on, reminiscent of Land Rover et al.), and a very nice car dealer who didnt pressure us. But then, that doesnt really mean anything much, and you wouldnt make a purchase decision based on that.
Overall for me, i'm going for the Yeti. My dad (who currently drives a diesel 08 Golf) may also have inadvertently found his next car too!
Oh, and finally, the icing on the cake is that for Hire Purchase, Skoda are offering 1.5% APR on Yetis currently Do I sound like i'm interested ??