I've already got 6Gb of RAM that's working fine, not sure I want to just 'buy more and sell the old on'. However take the point on board that if I went for the 12Gb (3x4Gb) option I would have at worse 12Gb of working memory (and at best 18Gb I reckon?).
I'd be thinking of doing this with 2 systems so price does come into it as well. At the moment I'm more thinking of going for as close as I can get to the original spec - i.e. buying the same RAM kit again (3x2Gb) to go in the spare 3 slots. To get best chance of compatibility.