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    Ever been in that situation....

    where you so badly wanna do something..but doing it will upset and destroy so many other things its not true


    (i know wiffle and ste know what i'm talkin about here but no specifics please lads)

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    yes.

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    hmmm.....
    Got to be about a woman....

    I had a scenario for about 6 months with my best friend....
    ....Although we were really good friends I couldn't help but think of her more than this....

    Always wanted to mention it to her, but was afraid that it would turn out for the worse :/

    Got to be a bad thing....

    Push came to shove, I told her... We tried for a while...... Didn't last that long but we are still good mates


    I could be totally off topic here.... Thought it fitted...

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    well, it involves a woman, but its not a situation like yours acid

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    Whether it is or it isn't like my situation.... anything to do with women tends to get complicated...

    With the way you initially describe it... What comes to mind is that there is other people, possibly friends that will be effected if you were to make a move :/

    Sympathy's with you....
    Im sure you will make the right decision....

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    i do know what ur talkin bout and it is a very hard situation... i think its gonna have to be one of those stuations where u have to bottle up ur feelings / anger / rage because although it may feel good at the time u wil regret it so much later on

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    i'm not sure i even want to know what you are thinking of doing

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    Originally posted by Wiffle_BMXer
    i do know what ur talkin bout and it is a very hard situation... i think its gonna have to be one of those stuations where u have to bottle up ur feelings / anger / rage because although it may feel good at the time u wil regret it so much later on
    I bottled up my rage for 5 years over this, and now its back.

    problem is, this time i don't think i can stand to be walked all over again.

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    It's hard to give advice without knowing any specifics, I was gonna say ask her out, you only live once, but wiffle's post has got me confused

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    Be cool, cool like the fonz... you know who will hunt you down if your not.....

    /me whispers something inaudible to Kerry

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    its not about asking people out........... as he said here

    Originally posted by Knoxville
    well, it involves a woman, but its not a situation like yours acid

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    I'll give out some basid details for those of you that don't know irl, but no names, no specifics.

    I was pretty much tormented by one of the guys at my school for 5 years I was over that and had forgotten about it....moved on and been the bigger man etc.

    But a while ago i found out that he's going out with someone i work with. I doubt she knows what he's capable of and what he's done. He waits for her outside work and i see him after ost of my shifts. Its now gettin too much to bear and i now have built enough confidence in myself and who i am to know like i should have known then that i could destroy him if i wanted to, over the last couple of months i've been bottling it up.

    but i get the feeling its not gonna stay that way for long.......

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    Originally posted by acidrainy
    Be cool, cool like the fonz... you know who will hunt you down if your not.....

    /me whispers something inaudible to Kerry
    Kerry is under MY control, and will not be obeying you unless you suddenly start looking and sounding like me

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    ack, that sucks. I'd like to give you advice to be the bigger man etc and not do anything but I'm not sure I could do the same in your situation.

    Just think of it like this though, what's in the past has happened and can't be changed, it's the future you have to focus on. You're a better person than this bloke and I don't know him but by the sounds of things he's gonna be the type to spend the rest of his life on the dole. Whatever you do though, I'd keep it between you and him, I wouldn't start messing with the relationship cos that's bringing a third person in and will only complicate things. Whatever happens I hope it's for the best and I hope you can manage to put the past behind you

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    Originally posted by Slick
    ack, that sucks. I'd like to give you advice to be the bigger man etc and not do anything but I'm not sure I could do the same in your situation.

    Just think of it like this though, what's in the past has happened and can't be changed, it's the future you have to focus on. You're a better person than this bloke and I don't know him but by the sounds of things he's gonna be the type to spend the rest of his life on the dole. Whatever you do though, I'd keep it between you and him, I wouldn't start messing with the relationship cos that's bringing a third person in and will only complicate things. Whatever happens I hope it's for the best and I hope you can manage to put the past behing you
    Sound advice slick, and some i'd love to take. But if i do what i want to to him, she's gonna wanna know why and theres a possiblity that an ass load of people where i work could end up hating me. The whole point is i don't want her involved but it'll happen if i even so much as touch him.

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    Be careful of your actions..
    I know it sounds like the typical shoddy advice but seriously..
    Dont loose your cool....

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