Girls....man you guys must luv my threads XD

[Behemoth]

My assesment of the situation is this.

Would I take her back ? It depends if I could forgive her for what she's done. If she was drunk then well maybe, everyone makes one mistake. I could probably forgive a drunken one nighter mnore so than I could a premeditated bonk.

Lets be honest here, she chose to do it she wasn't forced so she can't really be all that into you mate. I know you've got a rep on these forums for shall we say making some silly mistakes with the ladies and I'm not judging you by this at all.

Think to yourself, if she's done it once (and thought about it) then could she do it again ? No matter how sorry she says she is, or how much she says she loves you, you will always have that doubt at the back of your mind. You'll always be wanting to know who she's seeing, who she's going out with, before you know it you'll be checking her phone.

See where I'm going with this ? There's no trust, you can't have a relationship with someone if you don't trust them. I'm not going to go into details about what happened with my ex, but it got the point where I couldn't trust her any longer and made the hard decision to walk out on her in my first proper place away from the family home.

It hurt like hell, but it gets better. The pain goes away, you realise that you can live without her and that there is someone else out there thats meant for you. Take some time out mate and enjoy being single whilst still being a good Dad to your kids. Life is stoo short to get yourself tangled down with all this emotional bull crap.

Seriously not worth all the agro and stress, get out now and save yourself even further pain and suffering.

[peterb]

Santa - HEXUS agony 'aunt'!

[Biscuit]

Santa - HEXUS agony 'aunt'!

More like the weird uncle

[Behemoth]

More like the weird uncle

Don't sit on his knee then !

[TheAnimus]

More like the weird uncle

And that son is why the good lord gave you two hands!

[Jay]

I love my wife but if she cheated on me I couldn't take her back. I would have that image in my head and it would mess me up. She would have to go.

[GoNz0]

I love my wife but if she cheated on me I couldn't take her back. I would have that image in my head and it would mess me up. She would have to go.

that or buy her a hoodie with megan fox printed on the back

[Dareos]

So, why don't you visit a few open minded websites, go to a few "friendly" clubs, make a video together, go to a party and drop your car keys in a bowl...

take her sister too and you'll be a popular man at that party!!

[Jay]

So, why don't you visit a few open minded websites, go to a few "friendly" clubs, make a video together, go to a party and drop your car keys in a bowl...

take her sister too and you'll be a popular man at that party!!

Becuase for the macho image that you may think that shows it will, in reality, mess his head up and their heads as well.

Dareos I do understand what you are saying but have a quick think about it.....

"To sit alone with my conscience will be judgment enough for me."
- Charles William Stubbs

[Dareos]

I was erm, joking mate


Razer isn't old enough to drive....

[MadduckUK]

I love my wife but if she cheated on me I couldn't take her back. I would have that image in my head and it would mess me up. She would have to go.

What image? you weren't hiding behind the curtain were you?

[santa claus]

santa - hexus agony 'aunt'!

Hrhrhrhrhrhr

Y'know, when your most thanked post ever is:

learn to rubbishrubbishrubbishrubbish.

....you really ought to worry if people are taking you seriously .

May we extrapolate that you are a w@nker? Keep those balls in the air TA

[Gerrard]

Well, there are two types of men in the world; w@nkers and liars.

[BEANFro Elite]

Frankly no matter how it goes, you're in a prime position for manipulation by sister A and unfortunately, sister B is forever tainted now that shes out-sourced her intimate man-company.

Supposing you DID get back with sister B, that spectre of disgust / distrust will always be there trolling your relationship, which leads me to conclude that the most prudent option would be to cut ties completely with sister B as you have at least one child with sister A.

You ought to tread more carefully and treat women with a lot more respect than it seems you are at the moment.

[roachcoach]

@OP: If it was your mate, what would you tell them to do?

That's a pretty good acid test for sanity of actions right there.

[mycarsavw]

Strewth, don't turn a drama into a crisis. You enjoy her company, she turns you on, she's your true love. I mean, why all the heart-wringing? Just enjoy the good times and believe me, these relationship turmoils are the good times because they lead to the BEST sex ever.

If you let some other guy in for a go then that's your fault so get over it, she was 'free' at the time. Besides, if she goes for a romp again, you can always pop round to Kat's place .

Geez, some people don't know when they are born. Instead of seeing the shrink, I'd be seeing both girls and telling both I love them.

Trust me .

Trust you? A chap who only com....visits once a year?