Looking at the Vintage Sexist Adverts I am glad to say that we have moved forward since those adverts were made. Things are certainly not perfect, but change takes time. But I have recently seen on my FB, a number of posts referring to (feminists?) articles that make me go from "I believe men and women should be treated as equally as practical" to "Wow. Can you be any more patronising, condescending and insulting to my intelligence?". Are those articles supposed to sway the way we think in a way that benefits them? Because it is not working for me. Some of the articles are allegedly written by guys, but you know what? It does not add to the credibility especially with the ways they are written. You may have seen the error of your ways, but don't go assuming that we all made the same mistake and need to change. Heck, I wonder if some of those articles' real purpose isn't to undermine the feminists movements by enraging the other half the population. At least until I note that a fair number of guys on FB do seem to agree with the posts. For most part, I stay quiet, it would take too long to break down the flaws of every point of an article, and failing to carefully argue the point may make me come across as a women hater or something. Heck, one of the article I seem to remember told me to "Shut up" if I have anything to say.
This is something that I've noticed popping up on my FB for the last few months, and I'd say that most article could be discussed in a separate thread, but the above generally describes my feelings.
The latest one though was on the subject of the "Friend zone". Now, I admit, given the number of male supporters the poster had, perhaps I do have it wrong. To me, it is no more than the phenomenon where one person gets rejected by another because there are seen as "Just a (good) friend". And to me, the phenomenon is given the name because of how common it is, and the belief that there is usually no way "cross over" to the "Romantic interest zone". I view the phenomenon as natural, can happen to either gender.
And yet.. the term is apparently sexist and some people think the term should stopped being used. Those who use it are apparently have a sense of entitlement issue because apparently, you would only use it if you are one of those who "expect" a relationship for being nice (when everyone over the age of 8 knows that life isn't fair) or who go on badmouthing women after being rejected (that problem isn't borne from the term, won't go away if you ban the term, and the term need not even be used by those people exclusively). I also remember one guy arguing there is no reason for feeling bad for being friend-zoned if the friendship was "real" in the first place.
Just Google "Friend zone sexist" and you will find a dozen of articles criticising the term. But in the end, I still don't get it. To me, the criticisms tie too many assumptions. The contents of the articles do not vary much so if you have time to check any one of them and let me know if you think the points are generally sound.