Depending on the cooling but yes those level of voltages would be likely to reduce life span.... The more important question is WHY did he need to pump 1.43V just to get 4.6? I recall getting 5ghz on 1.39v.... over 1.4 seems a bit silly
IMO.
How old is it? if its less than a year old then definitely pick up the intel overclocking warranty for £12(3 year term), just for peace of mind, if it was me id certainly grab it as then i know if it dies it dies. Know one really knows if intel can tell if you destroyed a chip from OCing or not but
tbh £12 to protect a £140 chip is easy math and we all know SB chips are very reliable on stock!.