IMHO the main advantage of IvyBridge is the iGPU which is considerably improved over Sandybridge, and PCIE 3.0 for dedicated GPUs. Definitely the chip I'd get if I didn't already have a 2500K which is a beast of a CPU, but today's buyer should go Ivybridge for futureproofing/upgradability and/or better resale value.
This is based on the minimal difference (~£10-£15) between Sandy/Ivy, if the 2500K was ~£30 cheaper there'd be a good argument for it - particularly if you didn't need integrated graphics, or wanted extreme overclocks.
AFAIK LucidVirtu is available for Z68 mobos (I've never used it on my UD3H as I haven't been impressed with reports of performance/efficiency), although it may be better implemented/featured on Z77.