What is it with girls...?

[Salazaar]

Ah well, I think I'll stop trying to understand and just get on with trying

[staffsMike]

She was then made to apologise to me for that because everything she said was all lies and then this week she's all over me like a rash, and to be honest that just doesn't wash with me now, I just tend to ignore her unless I really have to speak to her about work, I don't talk to her about anything on a social level anymore incase she uses that to say I tried something or with her.

Women tend to thrive on male attention. The fact that you obviously once liked her and now ignore her will probably annoy her and thus she will try and win back your attention. This plays straight back into my original post in this thread, they just like the chase but probably don't really care about you particularly.

I know all women are'nt like this, but where are the good ones ? All I seem to find are idiots, bunny boilers or pyschos.

I snagged me a good one. Well she doesn't fall into those categories anyway
She's studying to be a surgeon (which if she did fit into any of those categories would actually make her really quite scary )

I'm hoping to never have to go through the chase again, as fun as it can be, settling down is better.

[Behemoth]

Women tend to thrive on male attention. The fact that you obviously once liked her and now ignore her will probably annoy her and thus she will try and win back your attention. This plays straight back into my original post in this thread, they just like the chase but probably don't really care about you particualrly.



I snagged me a good one. Well she doesn't fall into those categories anyway
She's studying to be a surgeon (which if she did fit into any of those categories would actually make her really quite scary )

Well to be honest with you, I don't really want anything to do with her because she isn't dialed in right, another female work mate of mine has tried setting her up with on of her best male friends, and Catherine did the same to him as she did to me, so she can go take a long walk off a short cliff as far as I'm concerend.

I've given up looking, I always end up hurt or recjected, and the only good woman I really like isn't accesible, long story but shortened version is she is going through a divorce and has 3 kids but we do have a spark whenever we meet up, I want to act on it but know it isn't appropriate.

[CaseyV9]

I'm still trying to work out one I work with. I asked herout at the christmas party, she said no, so though ok no real big deal then only to find out a few days later she was slagging me off and trying to tarnish my very good repuation at work.

She was then made to apologise to me for that because everything she said was all lies and then this week she's all over me like a rash, and to be honest that just doesn't wash with me now, I just tend to ignore her unless I really have to speak to her about work, I don't talk to her about anything on a social level anymore incase she uses that to say I tried something or with her.

I know all women are'nt like this, but where are the good ones ? All I seem to find are idiots, bunny boilers or pyschos.

I have a Pyscho at work aswell.

I don't get on at work. Hate everyone.

This new girl started work. She kept coming over every day and asking advice on the work.
I tried talking to her on more social level and she just walked of, didn't want to know.
Nearly every day she comes over about the work.
Then this over guy who's worked there for ages came over and told me he was her husband.
She also started offering me a lift home after work with her husband. No way.
So now she's getting a bit flirty, Pressing her tits against me.
But ever since she got here she slags me off to everyone.

Do reckon she's trying to start a fight with here husband?

[staffsMike]

They are out there, you just need to look in the more unusual places

I have a Pyscho at work aswell.

I don't get on at work. Hate everyone.

This new girl started work. She kept coming over every day and asking advice on the work.
I tried talking to her on more social level and she just walked of, didn't want to know.
Nearly every day she comes over about the work.
Then this over guy who's worked there for ages came over and told me he was her husband.
She also started offering me a lift home after work with her husband. No way.
So now she's getting a bit flirty, Pressing her tits against me.
But ever since she got here she slags me off to everyone.

Do reckon she's trying to start a fight with here husband?

By pressing her tits against you...how is this acheived in the work place? I have funny images in my head now. Sounds very odd lol

[Behemoth]

I have a Pyscho at work aswell.

I don't get on at work. Hate everyone.

This new girl started work. She kept coming over every day and asking advice on the work.
I tried talking to her on more social level and she just walked of, didn't want to know.
Nearly every day she comes over about the work.
Then this over guy who's worked there for ages came over and told me he was her husband.
She also started offering me a lift home after work with her husband. No way.
So now she's getting a bit flirty, Pressing her tits against me.
But ever since she got here she slags me off to everyone.

Do reckon she's trying to start a fight with here husband?

Run for the hills mate. Just run. She sounds like a fruit loop, either that or she's casing you up for a bit of 3 way action with her hubby ??

[Stringent]

Why do all the nob heads get all the girls? Women are stupid.

PS: Don't argue my point because you know it's true.

Totally agree with that. I look around and think, what the heck is a girl like that doing with a moron like him? Does she think she is going to change him or what? It sickens me, also gives us nice, half decent guys even less chance.

But confidence is the thing too though. Some ladies like a confident fella.

[Behemoth]

At the end of the day it just boils down to the fact that the idiot had the balls to go over and talk to her. It's a numbers game really, if you speak to 0 girls you won't get anything, but if you went and spoke to 25 in an evening you'd end up with someone (resisthing the temptation to say something here becasue thats what I ended up with last time)

[staffsMike]

But confidence is the thing too though. Some ( all ) ladies like a confident fella.

Even two of the most shy people need to come out of their shell to form a relationship.

I used to be pretty shy by once out of my shell the ladies were rolling in lol

[CaseyV9]

They are out there, you just need to look in the more unusual places



By pressing her tits against you...how is this acheived in the work place? I have funny images in my head now. Sounds very odd lol

I work in a factory. I walked passed her an noticed it was snowing outside through the window.
I couldn't remember the last time it snowed. All I said was 'It's snowing outside'
and went back to my machine.

I had my hand on the top of a high metal case thing.

So Pyscho walks over with a big grin on her face. She was stood on the other side of metal case thing.
She learns over it and pressed one of her tits on my hand. Then she's asking me if she and her husband can give me a lift after work to stop me getting wet.

I stopped making eye contact after that and not talking to her. I don't even like her.

[staffsMike]

I'd be running for the hills lol

[Stringent]

Even two of the most shy people need to come out of their shell to form a relationship.

I used to be pretty shy by once out of my shell the ladies were rolling in lol

I'm a lot better out my shell, but it takes something to do it. Many a time I have come away thinking, I could have said/done that and I might have a number in my hand ... Sometimes though I just think what might come out may make me sound like an idiot, then I get the WTF look!!

Any confidence building tips?

[Behemoth]

I'm a lot better out my shell, but it takes something to do it. Many a time I have come away thinking, I could have said/done that and I might have a number in my hand ... Sometimes though I just think what might come out may make me sound like an idiot, then I get the WTF look!!

Any confidence building tips?

As daft as it sounds mate, just be yourself.

Thats about the best advice I can give you. I really should follow my own advice, but I never do, I've about 0 confidence.

[Gr44]

Anyone else feel Hexus.dating coming on? The dating website for those with a love for computers.... who am I kidding, geeks, the lot of us!

[Behemoth]

Anyone else feel Hexus.dating coming on? The dating website for those with a love for computers.... who am I kidding, geeks, the lot of us!

Well mate you said it, the trouble is there are some of us geeks here who do have women, so we can;t all have 2 heads or something.

[staffsMike]

I see confidence as showing no fear or weakness. If people percieve your weaknesses it will only lead to your eventual embarassment.

Walk into a bar find the nicest looking girl you can* knowing full well she will knock you back. Go up to her and ask her if shes as smart as she is pretty..
If shes knocks you back then smile and say apparently not straight to her face and walk away
If you go in knowing and expecting the worst case scenario then it can only get better if the worst doesn't happen
If you can do that then you quite simply a jedi master!

*dear lord make sure she doesn't have a boyfriend first haha

But to be honest your only true confidence will come once you have actually started going out with a girl and become truely comfortable with her.