how do you get a girl to trust you again?

Exact thing happened to me aswell but she was just a mate...yet it still took 6 months for her to trust me again.

Keep trying!

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Originally Posted by sleepyhead

Go down to pub, get mashed.

With you suffering from a mega hangover (and having a good time getting to that state), should give ample time for your ex to calm down and then let the grovelling begin.

Or just tell her you're gay and see if she tries to "convert" you.

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Seriously, thats just going to fail.

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Originally Posted by MadduckUK

is her mate nice?

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yeah, she's a very nice person.. we get on very well.. but obviously, too well.
my only excuse is i was drunk

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Originally Posted by matty-hodgson

yeah, she's a very nice person.. we get on very well.. but obviously, too well.
my only excuse is i was drunk

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How old are you ??

not the best of excuses , make a clean break of it :) wipe 'yourself' on her teddy bear and move out :)

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Originally Posted by Moby-Dick

not the best of excuses , make a clean break of it :) wipe 'yourself' on her teddy bear and move out :)

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Best advice here to be honest :)

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Originally Posted by Behemoth

How old are you ??

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i'm 16..
very naive and young, i know..
but she's well.. AWESOME!

16 is too young to have "the one" seriously.

You got too much growing up to do yet.

You'll never get her trust back... once it's gone, it's gone.

And come on, if she's the "one" why did you get off with her best mate? Drunk or not, If someone is the one, you don't even LOOK at someone else. (unfortunately, in my experience, they do... stuff happens)

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Originally Posted by Moby-Dick

not the best of excuses , make a clean break of it :) wipe 'yourself' on her teddy bear and move out :)

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i know my excuse isn't good.. but she's not too bothered about that, she's done the same before, but not with me, and she knows how easy it is..
just if i thought before i said "no i never, who the hell said that?!"

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Originally Posted by matty-hodgson

i'm 16..
very naive and young, i know..
but she's well.. AWESOME!

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I thought so. Your posts didn't come across as someone who was very mature. At your age mate it's best to just move on and not dwell on it. You might be okd enough to do the deed, but not mentally at 16 not old enough to deal with the consequnces of your actions. There was no offence meant in this reply.

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Originally Posted by tiggerai

16 is too young to have "the one" seriously.

You got too much growing up to do yet.

You'll never get her trust back... once it's gone, it's gone.

And come on, if she's the "one" why did you get off with her best mate? Drunk or not, If someone is the one, you don't even LOOK at someone else. (unfortunately, in my experience, they do... stuff happens)

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Hit nail on head.

oh blimey - you only snogged someone ?

had gone 'round the world' with her gran then , perhaps you should be feeling bad about yourself. In the grand scheme of things , a snog is a mere splash on the headboard of life.

If she's going to go off the rails at that , imagine how bad it'll be when she finds out anything important !

Either she gets over it or you get rid.

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Originally Posted by tiggerai

16 is too young to have "the one" seriously.

You got too much growing up to do yet.

You'll never get her trust back... once it's gone, it's gone.

And come on, if she's the "one" why did you get off with her best mate? If someone is the one, you don't even LOOK at someone else. (unfortunately, in my experience, they do... stuff happens)

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yeah, i know.. i'm only 16, but honestly! i think i'm 1 of these young people who have actually found 'the one'
we've been together 9 months.
and not broke up until now.
we hardly ever argued.
it was perfect!

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Originally Posted by Moby-Dick

oh blimey - you only snogged someone ?

had gone 'round the world' with her gran then , perhaps you should be feeling bad about yourself. In the grand scheme of things , a snog is a mere splash on the headboard of life.

If she's going to go off the rails at that , imagine how bad it'll be when she finds out anything important !

Either she gets over it or you get rid.

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no, it's the fact i lied to her.. when i tried to deny it!

perfect doesn't exist :)


if it did , you'd have not got drunk and played tonsil hockey with someone else.

lets take an extreeme example - That bird from girls alouds fellah - you'd think he had it pretty good ? but no he played away from home.

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Originally Posted by matty-hodgson

yeah, i know.. i'm only 16, but honestly! i think i'm 1 of these young people who have actually found 'the one'
we've been together 9 months.
and not broke up until now.
we hardly ever argued.
it was perfect!

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I went out with my ex-fiancé until I was 20. We got together when I was 16.

Live and learn, that's all I gotta say.