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    Re: how do you get a girl to trust you again?

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    rounders?
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    what a game that is!
    it should really be our national sport, whoever chose football has some form of disability..

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    Re: how do you get a girl to trust you again?

    Quote Originally Posted by matty-hodgson View Post
    tbh.. i don't think that'll get me anywhere, 'cause then i'm lying again.. and what good is a gay guy to a girl?

    and what use is a threesome with 2 guys?!
    It will get her to like you again... after the threesome, tell her that she straightened you and then get back with her

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    Re: how do you get a girl to trust you again?

    Lying is the only way you can fix this... she already knows the truth... well anyway good luck, I have run out of silly ideas

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    Re: how do you get a girl to trust you again?

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    It will get her to like you again... after the threesome, tell her that she straightened you and then get back with her
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    Re: how do you get a girl to trust you again?

    Quote Originally Posted by SiM View Post
    Lying is the only way you can fix this... she already knows the truth... well anyway good luck, I have run out of silly ideas
    i'm never ever ever lying ever again!
    and that's not a lie!

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    Re: how do you get a girl to trust you again?

    I think this thread must have the fastest post count climb ever.

    (Can't be bothered with searching for the posts to quote from here... try and bear with me)

    - We have not all been in this position.. some of us have been single all of their life.

    - Isn't 16 a tad young (and illegal...) to be out drinking? Naughty naughty.

    - Agent, you're as much a perv as SiM from the booty thread, I hope you're happy with yourself

    - As for (I'm guessing) almost peeing yourself lol-ing matty, well, I wish I were as easy to please when I feel like hell



    Ok, I really don't believe in all this 'the one' nonsense, and the fact that she's not so bothered about the fornication (almost, I hope not the actual) surely should be setting off bad alarm bells anyway. I KNOW that's not the sort of person I could be with, even if I dreamt about them every single night for the rest of my life. If she's gone and got off with someone else, just because of this, then that's another good reason to drop her.

    The main message here probably isn't the music to your ears you may have hoped for, but for crying out loud, I hope you blummin well heed it

    Good luck either way, if you mysteriously disappear we'll be sure to send out a search party

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    Re: how do you get a girl to trust you again?

    Quote Originally Posted by matty-hodgson View Post
    i'm never ever ever lying ever again!
    and that's not a lie!
    Easy to say! Hard to do!

    Honestly, you'll be meeting so many more girls that you'll probably think are the "one".

    We've all been through it

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    Re: how do you get a girl to trust you again?

    I think if you speak to her and say if she doesn't want to carry on with the relationship now because she can't trust you, you respect that. But you care about her a great deal and don't want to lose something great over a silly mistake, and an even sillier idea about covering it up. And so you want to stay friends and prove to her that you are trustworthy, and maybe in time if she feels she can trust you again... there can be a chance.

    (In the meantime you're technically single so do her mate! Heh... I just came out of a long relationship, freedom when you're young is so precious!)

    Best of luck whatever way :-)

    edit: sorry for the plug but I'm a reg on TheSite.org boards - it's a charity set up to help young people with issues relating to anything - studies, relationships, sexuality etc.. If you're really stuck there'll be experts and experienced members who can probably give you some good advice (not that the advice here isn't good!)
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    Re: how do you get a girl to trust you again?

    Quote Originally Posted by SiM View Post
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    Tell her that you are gay...
    I already suggested that on an earlier page

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    Re: how do you get a girl to trust you again?

    Quote Originally Posted by matty-hodgson View Post
    right.. in short, i bolloxed up a relationship with my ex..
    i seriously think i love her!
    i lost my virginity to her.
    but i lied to her..
    and she hasn't taken to that well..
    anyone been in this sort of situation before?
    anything i could try?
    i'll actually hoover out all the fans and heatsinks on your PC for the rest of the year if you get us back together!! and do whatever else you require!
    Ive bin in that situation, *along with the virginity condition*, I lied to her about something and she got to know, and I was embarassed when she told me and didnt want to talk to me, I didnt give up, I cried, told her im sorry, promised her that such a thing will not happen again, i literally begged her to forgive me, since I was wrong and I knew it and I love her so much, she did forgive me eventually, but it took time, and even more time for her to get normal with me, but we are still together....so It worked out, you try, dont give up...make her know that you NEED her so much and that you were wrong and you admit that...
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    Re: how do you get a girl to trust you again?

    OK I just woke up and trolled through here.

    16?! Mate, get on with your life your GCSE's and A-Levels, get a job and then maybe you can think about 'the one'. We always wish our first 'one' will be the 'one' but the 'one' doesn't happen until you have had a 'few'.

    I know how you feel though, but seriously there are more important things in life than getting your emotions screwed over by a girl. So somehow swallow it, stick around with your other mates and have a good time with them.

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    Re: how do you get a girl to trust you again?

    So this is what you lot get up to when I go to bed! I really must try and stay awake for longer!

    Anyhow, my relationship with Mrs Lucio has been put through the ringer a fair few times and it's always come out stronger in the end because we really are meant for each other. Simple fact is, if she's not interested, then she isn't "the one".

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    Re: how do you get a girl to trust you again?

    I had a "the one" when I was 16, 18, 23 after that I kinda new that there weren't any "the ones".

    That is until now. At 36 I really and truely have found "the one". You just know. Before now they were just girls i had long relationships with.

    Matty, I seriously wouldn't worry about it. It might feel like it's the end of your girlfirends but, dude, you'll have another TOP girl very shortly. Either that or it gives you time to rack up your achievements on Xbox360
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    Re: how do you get a girl to trust you again?

    Quote Originally Posted by JK Ferret View Post
    I think this thread must have the fastest post count climb ever.
    yeah, i've mentioned that post climb thing.. it went up bloody fast! it appears to be something that everyone wants to help with.. cheers guys

    Quote Originally Posted by JK Ferret View Post
    - We have not all been in this position.. some of us have been single all of their life.
    and some people have more sense than to try and deny something you done, when you know fine well that lying never works, and that her best mate told her she got with me.

    Quote Originally Posted by JK Ferret View Post
    - Isn't 16 a tad young (and illegal...) to be out drinking? Naughty naughty.
    yes, it is illegal, but i look much older than i am, i've been stopped once or twice by doormen, so.. why not get wrecked on a weekend if ya can?

    Quote Originally Posted by JK Ferret View Post
    - - As for (I'm guessing) almost peeing yourself lol-ing matty, well, I wish I were as easy to please when I feel like hell
    i probably shouldn't be laughing at a time like this, but things that people has been saying all night are just of the upmost hilarity!

    Quote Originally Posted by JK Ferret View Post
    -The main message here probably isn't the music to your ears you may have hoped for, but for crying out loud, I hope you blummin well heed it

    Good luck either way, if you mysteriously disappear we'll be sure to send out a search party
    yeah, pretty much everyone has said that i'm just being 'young and foolish' to put it in such a way.. and i probably am, but i would still like to get back with her, i'd like that soooo much, but if things still aren't getting any better in a week or so, then i think i'll just move on, get wrecked with the mates, and get with some girl in a bar.. and that'll hopefully take my mind off it.

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    Re: how do you get a girl to trust you again?

    Quote Originally Posted by sleepyhead View Post
    I already suggested that on an earlier page
    what's the bloody thing with telling someone you're gay?!
    does it actually work or something?
    what exactly happens after you've told her you're gay?
    isn't that just another lie that i'm telling her?
    lets hope it's a lie if i tell her!!!!

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    Re: how do you get a girl to trust you again?

    Quote Originally Posted by Hunain View Post
    Ive bin in that situation, *along with the virginity condition*, I lied to her about something and she got to know, and I was embarassed when she told me and didnt want to talk to me, I didnt give up, I cried, told her im sorry, promised her that such a thing will not happen again, i literally begged her to forgive me, since I was wrong and I knew it and I love her so much, she did forgive me eventually, but it took time, and even more time for her to get normal with me, but we are still together....so It worked out, you try, dont give up...make her know that you NEED her so much and that you were wrong and you admit that...
    cheers pal, this actually gives me hope ya see.. but it's mainly upto her, i don't think there's much more that i can do. i've done all the grovelling i can over the last couple of days, i've spent nearly a tenner on texts and phone calls, only to get very few replies and the voicemail everytime. (why does voicemail cost 10p?!?!)
    i just seriously hope it all turns out well..

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