how do you get a girl to trust you again?

[matty-hodgson]

as people have said, 16 is too young to know true betyrail. Give it time you will learn how to realy **** things up!

It's worth saying that you never stop loving someone really, only on a balance of things you start too hate them more.

yeah, i kinda think the same.. but it's awful all the same when you lose someone you believe to actually 'love'

Also, that you a snog is mearly just a friendly happy handshake.

i may use that phrase sometime

[[GSV]Trig]

Put it down to experiance and get on with your life, live n learn.
She might even if your lucky say she forgives you but she sure as hell will never forget and can/will use it as an excuse to get you to jump thru hoops, drop you at a minutes notice, use it as an excuse for her to do stuff, use it as an excuse in the future to just dump you with no notice

[matty-hodgson]

i can't believe how many people have wrote back on here, in such a short period of time.. i appreciate it a lot guys!

has anybody been in this situation before?
what did you do?
i'm thinking of the 'box of chocolates and a huge sorry' route atm.
dunno if that'd work or not though.

[matty-hodgson]

Put it down to experiance and get on with your life, live n learn.
She might even if your lucky say she forgives you but she sure as hell will never forget and can/will use it as an excuse to get you to jump thru hoops, drop you at a minutes notice, use it as an excuse for her to do stuff, use it as an excuse in the future to just dump you with no notice

yeah, totally agree, i'll most likely be taken for a ride from here on if we get back together, but i think she's worth it!
obviously there's only so much of it i'll take though.

[TheAnimus]

Just don't get saying 'hi' to me at a HEXUS meet again

less tounge you think?

seriously why do people get hept up about the little things.

fundementally i've been having really great 'monkey level' intercourse, whilst been very emotioinally connected to someone else. Whilst there was honesty from the outset, it wasn't the sex that caused grief, but the jelousy over the emotional reletionship. I think people put too much emphasis on meaninless physical interaction, rather than the mind.

[Agent]

Its just a warm up for the pain that's to come later on in life with relationships mate

It's a bit like that Egg advert really...the cleaver / dumb balance one

[matty-hodgson]

less tounge you think?

seriously why do people get hept up about the little things.

fundementally i've been having really great 'monkey level' intercourse, whilst been very emotioinally connected to someone else. Whilst there was honesty from the outset, it wasn't the sex that caused grief, but the jelousy over the emotional reletionship. I think people put too much emphasis on meaninless physical interaction, rather than the mind.

i haven't a clue what you just said there!

[[GSV]Trig]

Yes.
To create the situation or to remedy it?
Chocs and flowers work if u wanna get laid on valentines day, if you've dropped a bollock then that wont cut it
No it wont work, save yourself the humiliation and move on. Give her the chiocs n flowers, say sorry, say you understand that things are over, best case you'll see her in a few years time and at least be on speaking terms instead of saying hi to her, asking if shes going to say hi back, she looks you up n down, says no, n walks off...
Theorhetically speaking of course...

[matty-hodgson]

Its just a warm up for the pain that's to come later on in life with relationships mate

It's a bit like that Egg advert really...the cleaver / dumb balance one

i know i'll probably get much worse when i'm older. and much more mature.

[staffsMike]

i can't believe how many people have wrote back on here, in such a short period of time.. i appreciate it a lot guys!

has anybody been in this situation before?
what did you do?
i'm thinking of the 'box of chocolates and a huge sorry' route atm.
dunno if that'd work or not though.

I've kinda been there.

I'm not going into the story but annoyingly we spent a very large amount of time apart because she thought I was humping around blah blah.

Wasn't!!

Anyway, She of course is my one (although probably be the death of me ) So, I just used good old fashioned blunt persistance. Put all the effort you can fathomably put into annoying her Sing songs outside her window, hand delivery flowers everyday, do every single possible thing you can possibly think to bug the living **** out of her

And then when you get her back, make her apologise for being such hard work!

[Agent]

has anybody been in this situation before?

*EVERYBODY* has mate

As for what to do: You need to figure out what best shows that you're sorry. Sure I could tell you what I'd do, but we would probably be totally different in that respect. She likes you, not any of us

[Behemoth]

*EVERYBODY* has mate

As for what to do: You need to figure out what best shows that you're sorry. Sure I could tell you what I'd do, but we would probably be totally different in that respect. She likes you, not any of us

Can I just say that I haven't been in this situation. Now I'm not sure if this makes me weird, or just unique. Perhaps I'm just too honest for my own good sometimes.

[Agent]

less tounge you think?

seriously why do people get hept up about the little things.

fundementally i've been having really great 'monkey level' intercourse, whilst been very emotioinally connected to someone else. Whilst there was honesty from the outset, it wasn't the sex that caused grief, but the jelousy over the emotional reletionship. I think people put too much emphasis on meaninless physical interaction, rather than the mind.

Ohhh that had me laughing

[matty-hodgson]

I've kinda been there.

I'm not going into the story but annoyingly we spent a very large amount of time apart because she thought I was humping around blah blah.

Wasn't!!

Anyway, She of course is my one (although probably be the death of me ) So, I just used good old fashioned blunt persistance. Put all the effort you can fathomably put into annoying her Sing songs outside her window, hand delivery flowers everyday, do every single possible thing you can possibly think to bug the living **** out of her

And then when you get her back, make her apologise for being such hard work!

if it gets to that, i might just go for it..
but for now, that's a bit OTT.
it's like that you see on movies and stuff

[SiM]

bug the living **** out of her

eewwwww I first mis-read that as "**** the living bug out of her"

I think you should not let her know exactly how you really feel... Tell her that she is your number 1... but you will happily live with your number 2 choice (her mate), then tell her she has until sunset to tell you if she wants to get back with you before you make passionate love with her mate...
Give her a deadline and let her decide... if she doesn't choose you then, head over to the booty thread to cheer yourself up... there are plenty of other fish in the sea

[staffsMike]

In fairness I didn't do any of that I just waited it out until she realised she was wrong and then demanded an apology but I doubt that is going to work for you

I have watered down versions of the above though..mainly for kicks.. I like annoying her