The problem is, the risk I was going to take this week, well someone else had beaten me to it
Hell Yes!
Hell No!
Im a machine, I dont care about anything I do
The problem is, the risk I was going to take this week, well someone else had beaten me to it
I think pretty much anyone who is human has regrets, animals too lol. Its how ya cope with them that makes ya stronger/weaker tho.
Well, if you jumped off a tall building to see if you could evolve wings, it might be a risk you did regret taking ...... briefly.
Not all risks should be taken.
But regrets? Not really.
There are things that, with the benefit of hindsight, I probably would have done differently, but the thing about decisions is that even if it turned out bad, you never quite know if the outcome just might have been worse if you'd done it a different way. You know, you step out of the way of a speeding biker ...... into the path of a bus. You regret breaking up (or not breaking up) with someone, unaware that you'd be in even more of a mess because of who you met (or didn't meet) because you broke up (or didn't).
I'm not sure whether it's fatalistic or optimistic, but my attitude is that you can't undo what you've done in the past, so learn from it, cope with it and don't screw up the future (which you can affect) by worrying about your past (which you can't).
There's plenty of things coming down the track to worry about. Why waste time with regrets. Move on.
Things i regret ?
1. not saying yes more often
2. not taking chances when i should of
3. not sayng hi to more women when i should of
4. not working hard when i should of.
i have alot to regret and im more human becuase of it. i have really never taken any risks and in the end i have only ended sabotaging myself. the more i try to insulate myslef from failure and rejection the more i feel less connected to the real world.
A few.
1) Meeting the ex.
2) Choosing Malory School over Colfes - biggest regret ever.
3) Not staying with the first ex, hee hee
4) Smoking (I no longer smoke, btw)
Other than that, despite all the hurt, the surprises, the sheer unpredictability - none.
I have loads of regrets all due to my inability to do anything about them
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