i'm sorry to hear that mate, its rubbish & nothing i can say is likely to help
here, drown your sorrows....
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i'm sorry to hear that mate, its rubbish & nothing i can say is likely to help
here, drown your sorrows....
http://server5.uploadit.org/files/petrefax-ale.jpg
this one (and the next 5) are on me
That isnt very helpful now is it? :PQuote:
Originally Posted by Deckard
I hate all that cliched crap. "plenty more fish in the sea", "you're young, you'll find someone else", etc, etc.Quote:
Originally Posted by shiato storm
Seriously, if you love someone then you can't just 'move on' and find someone else. If you had a child and it was killed / disabled / whatever in some accident, you wouldn't say "that's okay, you can have another" or "plenty more where that came from". Losing your BF / GF is no different, when you've been with someone for a period of time and it ends it's like losing a limb, it's the small things you'll notice and that's what will do your head in the most. There's no easy way to get over it, maybe you never will, sure you might find another girlfriend but if you seriously loved this girl then chances are that's going to be there to stay.
Harsh words but unfortunately the truth, better to keep yourself occupied, try being with friends, getting out of the house, going out, etc, etc, anything to keep your mind off the situation. Time will work things out, eventually.
great way to burst a bubble there oakey...sort of repeating pretty much what everyone else has said, only less nice. perhaps we could remove a limb or two of yours??...anyone object?
Nah, it isn't.... but everyone else is offering loads of advice... I figured a little humour might help the chap along... :DQuote:
Originally Posted by lynni
HahaQuote:
Originally Posted by shiato storm
Oakey's post may have been harsh shiato but he's right in a way, the cliched rubbish pisses me off aswell and loosing a g/f can be like loosing part of yourself, you loose the things you used to do together the places you used to go etc etc.
woke up n dreamt about her last night :( dreamt we was still together n i was happy n woke up n im jus like oh :(
i cant stop thinkin about her, thought time was meant to make it better :(
Fraggle m8
Do you have any idea how many women (fit women) you are going to meet through the course of your lfe ? LOADS
Now you are a young chap, you've got a long life head of you, and what you are going through right now happens to everyone. (cue Gary Oldman in Leon)
EVERYONE !!!!!
People hate the 'plenty more fish in the sea' thing, but its so true. Thing is you haven't actually met your soul-mate yet, you might meet her tomorrow, you might meet her next year, 5 years from now, who knows.
The point is you have to enjoy your life to the fullest, and the only way you are going to meet that person is by getting out there and making the most of every minute of every day.
Trust me chap
You ain't seen NUTHIN yet.
Knoxville is right, a lot of us on here have been through pretty much the same lately. And Skii, that's not very good advice, what if he was 30, 40, 50, etc and his relationship had ended, you could hardly say the same thing then?
The bottom line is, when you've found someone and you really click, and for whatever reason it ends, it hurts like hell and you're not going to forget that. All you can do is try your best to take your mind off things.
Sorry Oakey - I disagreeQuote:
Originally Posted by Oakey
Maintaining a positive outlook on life, living every day to its fullest in the knowledge that the next big thing could be just around the corner is just what I think he does need to hear.
Alternatively he could just sit and be miserable couldn't he ?
It's going to be difficult for him to be positive when he's just been ripped in half. I'm not saying he should sit around being miserable, as I said, he needs to keep himself occupied and keep his mind off things, but if he truly loves this girl, that's a pain he'll live with for a long time.
Well my sit back and smile works for a while. Then people start spreading rumours and over here absolutely everyone finds out. Apparently i've been spreading stuff about my ex when i haven't actually mentioned her to one person yet. How very sad people can turn the lack of knowledge into some fiction story. Very sad indeed.
Fraggle, i feel for ya dude, i've been through the same thing but another one came along, then another, then another, then i gave up.
Well my sit back and smile works for a while. Then people start spreading rumours and over here absolutely everyone finds out. Apparently i've been spreading stuff about my ex when i haven't actually mentioned her to one person yet. How very sad people can turn the lack of knowledge into some fiction story. Very sad indeed.
Fraggle, i feel for ya dude, i've been through the same thing but another one came along, then another, then another, then i gave up. Not
Well my sit back and smile works for a while. Then people start spreading rumours and over here absolutely everyone finds out. Apparently i've been spreading stuff about my ex when i haven't actually mentioned her to one person yet. How very sad people can turn the lack of knowledge into some fiction story. Very sad indeed.
Fraggle, i feel for ya dude, i've been through the same thing but another one came along, then another, then another, then i gave up. Not much
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