Not sure this is exactly the right place to ask this but you all seem like a decent bunch for the time Ive been overing these boards. anyway to the point...
I work in a pub and I'm getting more and more frustrated at these days when kicking out at the end of the night. We're only small so no door staff to help and I inevitabley end up being the only male member of staff at the end of the night. I seem to struggle to get people to listen to me and it's like talking to a wall. I've tried being louder/more assertive and they just carry on. Especially those insisting on using the gambling machines (should I be too slow in turning them off before we stop serving).
Recently, for instance, I had a group of about 5 lads with alot left in their drinks and still on the machine. Nothing could get them to move they were getting more annoyed with me as I was with their blatant disregard for what i was asking. This was getting to around half an hour after we had closed and they wern't moving. I threatened to just switch the machine off but with all of them there it seemed that would cause more problems than it solved.
Just looking for some advice on how to be a bit more i guess assertive/confident. I am not exactly a big guy so i'm easily brushed off.