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    photo violation of my kid.....

    not sure where to put this but.....to cut a long story short, i have a daughter with an ex and we dont really get on. anyway on here mums facebook the nan has decided it would be a good idea to upload a photo of my lil girl in the bath! i mean granted the bubbles do sorta cover her up but her top half is all exposed, i dont care that she is only 2 there is still pervs who would luv this picture...ive already reported it to facebook but can i just have some advice on this abit? thanks!
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    It was so small that mine wouldn't fit into it

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    Re: photo violation of my kid.....

    By "Nan" do you mean...?
    Someone who is paid to look after your daughter?
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    Grandmother or similar?

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    Re: photo violation of my kid.....

    Grandmother, aka nan
    Quote Originally Posted by TAKTAK View Post
    It was so small that mine wouldn't fit into it

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    Re: photo violation of my kid.....

    Grey area really, I'd imagine with parental consent (which it seems she'd get from your ex) then it should be ok for her to post the pic so unless you have a valid concern I am unsure what you can do about it. Don't know how that works if you are/aren't/were married?

    I'm not so sold on the whole perv view on this though, there are millions of innocent pics out there like this, are you genuinely concerned for a valid reason or is it just tit-for-tat? I'm not making any sort of statement/judgement by asking this but a friend has a child with an ex & I have seen that it's very easy to be petty.

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    Re: photo violation of my kid.....

    If it bothers you could you not just message her asking her to take it off and explain your reasons? Rather than just reporting it without saying anything to her.

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    Re: photo violation of my kid.....

    yes ive got very good reason to belive a certain person in her contact list is a convicted pedo....the picture has been removed either way.....
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    It was so small that mine wouldn't fit into it

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    Re: photo violation of my kid.....

    Tbh, don't see what you are getting upset about. Its only a halkf naked kid, when I was that age my parents let me run around totally naked on the beach all the time. If by the slimmest of chances there was a peado getting his rocks off... so bloody what? Done me no harm.

    Sorry to be controversial and that.

    Anyway, bottom line is, you didn't take the pic so its not your copyright so I doubt there is anything you could do and I question if you even should.
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    Re: photo violation of my kid.....

    Quote Originally Posted by G4Z View Post
    Tbh, don't see what you are getting upset about. Its only a halkf naked kid, when I was that age my parents let me run around totally naked on the beach all the time. If by the slimmest of chances there was a peado getting his rocks off... so bloody what? Done me no harm.

    Sorry to be controversial and that.

    Anyway, bottom line is, you didn't take the pic so its not your copyright so I doubt there is anything you could do and I question if you even should.
    Well to be honest this...

    Quote Originally Posted by razer121 View Post
    yes ive got very good reason to belive a certain person in her contact list is a convicted pedo....the picture has been removed either way.....
    changes things. Why the hell is anyone on the friends list of a convicted paedo though? Especially someone with kids??..

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    Re: photo violation of my kid.....

    I wouldn't worry unless your gran has paedo friends.. and then you've got far worse to worry about!

    EDIT: Ah. I see. Well yes, this does change things a bit - surely you could notify facebook?

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    Re: photo violation of my kid.....

    Quite so. Worrying too much about this is pointless. My daughter used to wander about in nothing but a bikini bottom until she was about 10. You can't change your life to worry about a pervert. There are probably people who fancy middle-aged men in fur hats, but it doesn't stop me walking the dog dressed that way.

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    Re: photo violation of my kid.....

    ive already reported it to facebook, had a big argument with the mum about it, to cut a long story short,

    im not 100% on it as i was only told, not given any details but the guy in qeustion was taken in but not actually convicted, just taken in, so technically not a convicted pedo but either way, he was taken in but there was not enough evidence to prove it, either way im not keen on him seeing the picture, but like ive already said its been taken of now so not a problem
    Quote Originally Posted by TAKTAK View Post
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    Re: photo violation of my kid.....

    Bit too easy to wreck someone by accusing them of being a rapist, pedo or any of those things. Fair enough if someone just don't want others to see their kids naked full stop (in which case, why take the picture in the first place), but if someone's cleared they ought to be treated as such IMHO.

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    Re: photo violation of my kid.....

    Quote Originally Posted by G4Z View Post
    Tbh, don't see what you are getting upset about. Its only a halkf naked kid, when I was that age my parents let me run around totally naked on the beach all the time. If by the slimmest of chances there was a peado getting his rocks off... so bloody what? Done me no harm.
    Take it as a compliment?

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    OP, I am really sorry to hear about the situation your in with your ex, its easy to get wound up in these situations but i can understand you feeling this way. I recently broke up with my girlfriend (amicable) & we have a daughter together and I can understand the pressure on you.

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    Re: photo violation of my kid.....

    Quote Originally Posted by razer121 View Post
    im not 100% on it as i was only told, not given any details but the guy in qeustion was taken in but not actually convicted, just taken in, so technically not a convicted pedo but either way, he was taken in but there was not enough evidence to prove it, either way im not keen on him seeing the picture, but like ive already said its been taken of now so not a problem
    Easy on the defamation of character there. First he was a convicted sex offender, now he technically isn't, then straight after you say he was acquitted, so innocent.

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    Re: photo violation of my kid.....

    OP, have you considered removing her & family as facebook friends? I can only imagine it causing you more grief & worry then anything. Out of sight, out of mind? Use pictures you've got of your daughter and take some every time you see her? Might make life a bit easy for you rather then having to be reminded about it every time you log onto your PC.

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    Re: photo violation of my kid.....

    Quote Originally Posted by finlay666 View Post
    Easy on the defamation of character there. First he was a convicted sex offender, now he technically isn't, then straight after you say he was acquitted, so innocent.

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