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    Paranoia

    This sucks, someone, either one of my friends, or one of the few organisations that have both my addresses on file, has betrayed me and given my new address to my ex-wife.

    I'm so paranoid right now, given that she turned up at the door a couple of hours ago, every noise is making me jump


    The question is, how do I persue what is more than likely a breach of the Data Protection Act? The most likely organisation is the Electoral Role, given that a) I've recently provided them with my new address and b) I sent it off just under 2 weeks ago, about the right time to have sent a letter to the wrong address.

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    Re: Paranoia

    Well if it's the electoral role then it's not private unless you specify that (you did tick the box right?)

    Tricky one to find out really, more likely to be a mutual 'friend' I'd imagine ?

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    Re: Paranoia

    Specifically excluded myself from the edited register, however I had to remove myself from my previous address.

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    Re: Paranoia

    Why are you so scared??

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    Re: Paranoia

    Quote Originally Posted by CAT-THE-FIFTH View Post
    Why are you so scared??
    Cos the breakup was bad, to the point where she attached me and threatened me with a knife, that it ****ed my mind up so bad I cut myself again and again and again trying to die.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Lucio View Post
    Cos the breakup was bad, to the point where she attached me and threatened me with a knife, that it ****ed my mind up so bad I cut myself again and again and again trying to die.
    Sorry for asking - I didn't know! That is a flipping terrible thing for her to do!

    Make sure that you have something by your side to defend yourself with while you are at home.

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    Re: Paranoia

    Do you have anyone you can speak to (like tonight?) about this, a mate or something? Seems like you might need more than the words of wisdom we forumites can provide

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    Re: Paranoia

    Did you report the attack to the police?

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    Re: Paranoia

    Anywhere else you can stop tonight? Better for your property to get damaged than you (seems like it may well be possible )

    Sorry to hear about the break up too, I know you've mentioned it in a PM and stuff but I didn't realise it was that bad!

    EDIT: And with the details given away thing, that's gonna be pretty difficult to prove . I'm fairly sure you're gonna need some hard evidence to prove that kind of thing has happened.
    Last edited by matty-hodgson; 23-04-2010 at 11:44 PM.

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    Re: Paranoia

    Well, anyone can simply say that it's the ravings of a paranoid lunatic, and they'd be right.

    I think I'm safe for the moment, aparently she's left something under my car, most logical guess is it's just divorce papers but when I went out to see, nothing was there.

    All in all I'm just shaken up and trying to vent so I can sleep.

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    Re: Paranoia

    How did you get on, after last night's events, get any kind of sleep in the end? Hope things look a bit better in the light of today.. - taking it that you don't have work over the weekend & can stay put & take stock, so to speak. Let us know.

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    Re: Paranoia

    Not a whole lot calmer today, still feel violated and uncertain. Found out it was definately a cock up by the Electoral Commision that told her where I was, they sent my polling card with my address details on to my old address!!!

    Not sure what to do now, do I move again and go through all the hassle? I really really didn't want this evil whore to know where I lived and now I'm going to be nervous every time I go out.

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    Re: Paranoia

    Surely the police/courts can do something in this situation? Restraining order?

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    Have you considered going for some classes on self defence or even learning a martial art or something like boxing??

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    Re: Paranoia

    Have you contacted the police? I notice that other people have asked and you haven't answered. They should be your first point of call.
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    Re: Paranoia

    and say what to the police? Oh help I'm a 20 stone man scared of a 5'4" woman, they'll just laugh at me like they did last time I had to call them out

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