Serious question (aimed at ladies) and don't say night clubs.
Ta :)
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Serious question (aimed at ladies) and don't say night clubs.
Ta :)
Hm, I don't really know actually. It depends on what type of girls you wanna meet! :P If you wanna meet a party girl etc...you might find her on a night club, even if you like it or not :P ( I don't say all "party" girls hangs around at night clubs though!)
But I could also say, on a café :) That's kinda cute, isn't it?
Or over the Internet, but on that point, folks can have different opinions.
Hm...I don't know where else..if you can be a bit more specific about what type of girl you like then you might get other answers.
But good luck :P
hmmmm well i met tim (tumble) over MSN :) my flatmate is manx also, and had some mates comeing to visit, tim was one of them. I had spoken to most of them several times before on her MSN log-in and she was getting tired of me nicking her computer, so she set me up an account on my own computer transferring her contacts over to me..... the only one i hadnt spoken to was tim :lol:
Worked out pretty well in the end (considering the first time we met, we didnt speak to each other for 72 hours, cos we was so shy!!) and 12 months tomorrow, is our first year together :)
You know when you ask something and then think afterwards.. why? Well...
It's just I like to go to bars and pubs and socialise, rather than making a t*** of myself in a club (believe me, it HAS happened!). I've been with a girl that I met on the interweb before, chated for months on MSN and then got together. That didn't work out tho...
I just want someone to have fun with but for more than a week. Someone I can take places and enjoy being with. But.. the one girl I could really go for right now, well, my mate thinks he's in love with her. So that's kinda not gonna happen :rolleyes:
*sigh*
Hi!
I do believe that this is one of life's great mysteries. Where do you go to meet prospecitve partners - coz lets face it, it could happen anywhere and at anytime. I dont think there is really 'A' particular place you can go to meet the prospective 'girl of your dreams' and this is SO true when the shoe is on the other foot too.
In the past Ive met people in various different ways, through work, friends, web etc and none of those ways have been right as yet. Im still sitting on the bench waiting to find someone that I can have a 'relationship' with for longer than a week and that can put up with me!! ;)
But - I do know that EVENTUALLY it will happen. I will finally find someone with the same views on life as me, who is good for a laugh and can put up with me being a nutter - and so will you. (not saying that you are the same as me, but there is someone out there for everyone!)
So just take solice in the fact that you are not alone - and that the following statement is true:
"It'll happen when you least expect it!!"
xXx
Maybe you 2 should get together then :D
I agree with Honoop that you will find someone when you least expect it, so it may actually be better to stop *looking*.
I met Barry on the web too. At first we had no intention of meeting, then I was going to stay at his for a week or so before emigrating to Australia as we had become really close friends by then and decided that it was possibly going to be our only chance to meet each other. After 5 days of staying at his I cancelled my one-way ticket to Australia. We've been together just over 3 years now and got engaged in April :D
My advice is enjoy life, meet lots of people, make new friends (male & female) and it will happen :)
Aww... you guys.. :iloveyou: :D
I really wish you the best of luck! Enjoy eveything..and suddenly when you least expect it you'll just find her, ms Right ya know! :DQuote:
Originally Posted by Shad
My fav places are, local parks, and local gym :)
My boss reckons you do it in the super market....go until you find someone you like, then go back regularly at the same time...then, Oh! Don't I see you every week? etc...
Sounds...dire...to me but then..what do I know?
Also try hotornot! Maybe not...
Or until they get you arrested for stalking :DQuote:
Originally Posted by daverobev
u gotta be confident mate, join a club or something that interests you, biking or something, get with a girl there who has the same interests.. no harm in asking
Yeah, that's a really good thing! :D Actually that was how I met my b/f! I joined a computer association ;)!Quote:
Originally Posted by Russ
Don't make a point of going to find girls! I've met boys in all sorts of circumstances, theres no right or wrong place to look!
How many more cliches can I fit into this post!
I met my bloke on the net and were getting married in 8 weeks so it can't be that bad :)
I'm quite suprised at how many people meet people off the internet! Now I know why the Police are issuing so many warnings.... but as stated above, a lot of good can come out of it! :)
Pervert :inquisitiQuote:
Originally Posted by DeludedGuy
No, he’s right.Quote:
Originally Posted by Bunjiweb
I met a woman in a park whilst walking my dog, at about 5am. She was, I admit, eating food out of a bin at the time, and yes, you probably couldn’t describe her mental state as ‘conscious’ using the purest definition of the word; but she wanted all of me, baby.
...and that's why I brought this up in here and not GD :rolleyes:
Thank you ladies :)
Whenever i meet a girl that i like and get on with well she always seems to already have a b/f.
I think im doomed to singleness.
Butuz
Aww, don't you say that! I'm sure you'll find a nice girl someday, don't push it, it'll comeQuote:
Originally Posted by Butuz
you in a while. I'm sure! :D I thought that before too, but I did find a b/f when I least expected it!
Hang in there! :cool:
I hear ya buddy!Quote:
Originally Posted by Butuz
Take friday night for example. Met a really nice girl, we got on like a house on fire, drinking, dancing etc. Saturday night she signs me in to the union, hey presto look who's waiting for her, her blokee. Dagnammit. Course her blokee see's the threat and has a go for signing me in, but to be honest i would never split 2 other people up just to get what i want so he has nowt to fear (which is maybe where i am going wrong?).
Been waiting for 23 years for the "right girl" now - how long are you supposed to wait? :) Perhaps its time for operation "shock and awe" and a zero tolerance policy towards other blokes ;)
Butuz
Nah i'd never go after another guys special person...for the simple fact it really really hurts if you lose someone to someone else :( I know, because it has happened to me in the last couple of months to my g/f of 2 years.Quote:
Originally Posted by Butuz
As for finding new people/partners?
I would, if i was seriously looking [which unfortunately i am not], take the approach of meeting any kind of new friend, whether it be man or women. From that, you will then get to know their other friends of which hopefully a few will be female -AND- attracted to you -AND- single :)
Maybe you don't even get to need to know new people? Just see or ask your mates if they know people...you might be suprised. Or possibly hooking up with some old school friends you have lost contact with, see what that digs up.
There is lots of good options, because if you do make new friends then yep, you've made some new friends and that gets a firm :rockon: but you also might meet a new partner. Its a win win situation tbh, you've just gotta be pro-active imo.
i know this sounds dead corny, but you will meet someone :) its a matter of when....
in the meantime, get out there and have some fun :P Cos u will never know where 'we' might pop up ;)
After being a singleton for a very long time (5 years:eek: ), I met two girls in the space of a month in my local pub. The first didn't last two weeks, but I married the second:D.
I went to a lot of clubs and stuff when I was single, but I was too shy to chat up any girls. In the end I pulled when I didn't expect to, just drinking with my friends. Go out, socialise and make friends and you'll be sure to meet a fair few girls. I don't know if you have a job at the moment, but that's a surefire way to meet new people and make new friends in my experience:).
Rich :¬)
This thread is not doing me any favours :inquisiti
Firstly, I DO get out and socialise, I DO meet lots of people and I DO get chatting with the ladies. I'm not some hermet who sits at home all day and all night.
Secondly, the idea of the thread was to see where other people meet people. My efforts haven't been all that productive so I was curious to see where others went.
It's blatently bloody obvious that people "need to get out" to meet people.
Right. Sorry about that. Felt it had to be said though...
Well, what I (and as far as I can see everyone else) is trying to say is that there aren't any magic, secret locations that you haven't considered. I can't really see the point of the thread if you already go out and meet girls:rolleyes:.Quote:
Originally Posted by Shad
Rich :¬)
Friends of your friends really.
If you go out with mates (of both sexes) they are bound to invite some people you dont know along with you, and you'll meet someone like that
EDIT: that post is from a single person :(, so its probably complete rubbish
best place to look: friend of a friend's brother's best mate's sister's room-mate's cousin...always works best and few complications.
no, seriously though being part of a boat club helped me meet lots of people, also uni friends who had friends...
so I think knowing a friend with a friend works best.
Well you can't do much more than your doing imo then...it will happen, just give it time. Maybe they just need to see the car m8 :cool:Quote:
Originally Posted by Shad
Women/laydees/girls can be found all over the United Kingdom absolutely anywhere, the finest, however, are located in the grand old county of Yorkshire :p