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    How do you refer to people?

    http://www.bbc.co.uk/news/magazine-16808941

    I never really think much of this but I call friends "mate", "pal", "love", "fella" I've even used "flower" a fair bit, "chief" is another one. Between friends it's not much of an issue.

    However after reading that, it made me think just how much I use references at work, especially "love" when dealing with customers. I don't really think much of it when I say it, I think it's a fairly nice thing to say and it bears little meaning to me in the context of how love is usually used.

    I have however been told a couple of times that a certain person doesn't like the word "love".

    Anyone ever had any awkward moments? I've no comical stories to tell if I'm honest, but this is Britain I can imagine somebody said something and it went terribly wrong!

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    Re: How do you refer to people?

    In my small experience girls are the worst offenders for calling everyone "babe" I always think of the film tbh
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    Re: How do you refer to people?

    I remember back in the day (12 years or so ago) before the net really took off I called a yank 'mate' and he started moaning and asking if I was gay
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    Re: How do you refer to people?

    Quote Originally Posted by Barry View Post
    I remember back in the day (12 years or so ago) before the net really took off I called a yank 'mate' and he started moaning and asking if I was gay
    Was his name Randy??



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    Re: How do you refer to people?

    Like a lot of people I tailor my form of address based on the person I'm speaking to and the impression I want to give. I'll use mate or fella if I'm talking to a warehouse worker, or using their name if it's a director or manager. Strangers tend to get no specific form of address, usually just a polite "excuse me" instead

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    Re: How do you refer to people?

    Since moving down south I no longer use 'me duck' - gets some very strange looks...

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    Re: How do you refer to people?

    Quote Originally Posted by kalniel View Post
    Since moving down south I no longer use 'me duck' - gets some very strange looks...
    It's funny you should mention that, a friend has started saying that quite a bit recently and when I first heard it, I gave a bit of a odd look there way!

    I think it's a bit silly we can't use the words we've been using for so long, if you grew up in a part of a community who said them words, then as you get older surely you should find it harder to take offence. It's rather silly really.

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    Re: How do you refer to people?

    Quote Originally Posted by 0iD View Post
    girls are the worst offenders for calling everyone "babe"
    This x1000!!

    Boggles my mind how women complain about it, yet they use it so much themselves......
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    Re: How do you refer to people?

    i cannot stand babe... i think its really tacky.

    Other than there is like a million different terms i will use depending on where i am and who im talking too.

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    Re: How do you refer to people?

    I've started tending towards calling everyone "hun" at the minute - can only assume I've picked it up from our ex-lodger. Friends tend to get "petal" when they're being whingy and moany. Otherwise I think I default to "mate" in informal situations, and "excuse me" in more formal ones!

    One of my colleagues at work calls everyone "team" which always amuses me - particularly when the Assistant Director (a "Tim") is in the office

    Quote Originally Posted by DannyM View Post
    Anyone ever had any awkward moments?
    I did once ring my wife shortly after entering a small health food shop in Birmingham, starting the conversation with a "Hi Love, do we need any ...." and the lass behind the counter gave me a nervous "oh, hello..." before she realised I was on the phone...!

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    Re: How do you refer to people?

    Mate generally. Kiddo for kids, or me brothers(despite them being in their 20's) and girlfriend regularly gets babe'd, but not other women. Babe seems to be a marmite one. I think because it's quite an intimate term, can come across as being or trying to be overly friendly.

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    Re: How do you refer to people?

    I think these days, people moan at the smallest of things... It's only a term of acknowledgement/greeting is it not?

    I've held a door open for a female as you do, and simply said 'On you go gorgeous' she just chuckled. Nothing harmful, nothing derogratory... why can't we all be like that?

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    Re: How do you refer to people?

    well yeah but thats quite funny... If she did it every single time it might get a bit old.

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    Re: How do you refer to people?

    "Hu-Man!"


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    Re: How do you refer to people?

    Puny earthling gets a good response. As in "Good morning puny earthling. I'll have a sausage roll and an Irn Bru please."
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    Re: How do you refer to people?

    Quote Originally Posted by Bluecube View Post
    Puny earthling gets a good response. As in "Good morning puny earthling. I'll have a sausage roll and an Irn Bru please."
    might try that

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