When your other half is seriously down in the dumps and looks pretty cheesed off with a situation that you have no control over (in my case she is having issues with a sale of her flat in London) whats the best way to make sure she knows that 1) You will always be there for her no matter what and 2) You know it's not your fault that you can't change the situation but want to do something to help.
The last few days she's stuck to me like glue and has not left my side at all (apart from now she has things she needs to sort out with her car and flat sale etc) and I'm getting ready for a halloween party in my flat that I don't really want and am being forced into wearing fancy dress for itWhich is part of the reason she doesn't want to come - one of my flat mates has said its mandatory and the other has said its optional - sadly the person who said its mandatory is hard to say no to - its a bit like its his way or the high way etc - he's trying pretty much to get her to come and in that respect she's like me - push me too far and I'll push back the other way. She's worried that if she did come somebody would say the wrong thing to her and she would explode and considering its all people from work coming she makes a very good point.
I'm sure that anyone who here has sold a house/flat knows how stressful that is when the buyer seems to be stalling on the purchase stating they are having issues with the lease holder when that same buyer has already bought 2 flats in the same block already. She does have on other issue, but thats been sorted by me (added her to my car insurance as a named driver so she can use my car if her current one fails its MOT and needs lots of money spending on it)
I just want her to know that really whatever stress she's put under I am there for her and that I'm not going to add to her list of problems.


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Which is part of the reason she doesn't want to come - one of my flat mates has said its mandatory and the other has said its optional - sadly the person who said its mandatory is hard to say no to - its a bit like its his way or the high way etc - he's trying pretty much to get her to come and in that respect she's like me - push me too far and I'll push back the other way. She's worried that if she did come somebody would say the wrong thing to her and she would explode and considering its all people from work coming she makes a very good point.
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