Afternoon all,
So, I'm in a bit of a weird situation at the moment and I'm interested to hear how you guys and girls would deal with this. As a backdrop to this, my gf and I have been together for very nearly 6 years and we've lived together for the past 3.
Last Fri, I stumbled across a Facebook message on my gf's account (she'd logged in on my iPad) that was from her boss. It read something along the lines of missing you, wished we were still together. This is weird, I thought. Rightly or wrongly I then got hold of her phone and took a quick look through some messages off this guy. There were lots. Lots about finding a quiet room in the office and about how they loved each other. This is really strange, I though.
So, last night I asked her how she was feeling. Is there someone else, are you happy etc. We talked for a while but the output was that she really wanted to make the relationship work. Interestingly though, whilst I gave her several opportunities to tell me about the boss thing, she didn't mention it. There were/are no other guys she said.
So, I'm not sure how to handle this. In my mind, she either actually loves this other guy, or she's too embarrassed to tell me about it (he's twice her age) and she just wants to put it behind her.
How would you react?