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    I am miserable...

    What is the meaning of life? Do I serve a purpose... We all die sooner or later so whats the point? In the end does anything mater?

    These are questions I ask my self every day... I guess in a way I'm searching for the meaning of life... I find myself miserably depressed, The things I once loved no longer have meaning to me. I have stopped caring about people and abandoned all my friends... I get up go to work and when I come home I come here to Hexus... Then I go to bed! Its the same thing every day... I sometimes wonder why I even bother... I don't even leave my house except for when I go to work... Even my favorite song is Alice Deejay - Better Off Alone! I am unhappy with my wait and am always alone, I never really had friends to begin with except 2... I have become shallow and rude, I feel as though there is no point in life...

    Is this normal? Or am I destined to be a homicidal maniac?

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    throughout everyones life we go through some kind of depression. i find i can sink myself into depression if i think about stuff like life, death etc too much.

    the trick is to break your routine, or keep yourself occupied with other **** as much as you can. you will soon find you will break the depression soon enough

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    To be honist I realy dont care much about others only myself... Perhaps I'm just a bad kinda person... And am ment to suffer...
    Last edited by myth; 21-11-2004 at 02:28 AM.

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    are you drinking or smoking the G? cuz they will only fuel the way you are feeling.

    and like i said, we have all been through the stage (or will go through it) when we just feel like shouting outloud "**** you all" and doing what the hell we want to do.

    think bout what you're doing, find your morality and try and get through it is all i can say

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    Think you do need to re-think your life there buddy. As ToMmEh said everyone goes threw this.. and it is not always just because your alone.. You could be the most exciting guy in the world and still be lonely/miserable inside.. i think you need to take up a hoby that you like doing that will get you out of the house and meet new people. There must be some club etc near your home you can attend. Just remember your not the only one.

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    Thing is dude, there is no actual meaning to life. The whole system of going to school, getting a job, working 9-5 until either you can work no longer or can afford to stop working is a routine that has developed over hundreds of years so now it has become the normal expectation of society. It's no wonder more and more people are becoming down in the dumps, demotivated and sick of working dead-end jobs. (Not that you're working a dead-end job. It's an example). Doing the same thing day in, day out, at home or at work will always lead to boredom. There is no chance of stopping this though, because this is the direction which civilsation has taken and will definitely not veer from.

    However, the sooner people break the cycle and do something they enjoy - something different, add a bit of variety to their lives, the sooner low-level depression will be cured, and the sooner people will live their lives happily.

    There are, of course, people who already do this. Many people live their lives doing jobs they enjoy, do a variety of enjoyable activities out of work, etc. They're making the most of it. Life isn't there to get you down, it's there for no reason at all. So why not do your best to enjoy it regardless?

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    The only thing that interests me is my PC, kinda like an expesive hobby Perhaps I need a girl to chear me up... Or face reality and take a vacation to amsterdam....

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    The point in life is to help everyone else, and anything else is just greedy. As theo said, theres no point in life, but theres no point in thinking like that anyway...
    Find some more friends, keep yourself occupied and dont think about the bad things
    Last edited by SilentDeath; 21-11-2004 at 12:43 PM.

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    Quote Originally Posted by myth
    Perhaps I'm just a bad kinda person... And am ment to suffer...
    Yeah, sounds about right. Ah well.

    To answer your question, the point of life is to watch football, eat lots of grub (twice as much at Christmas), drink and have a laugh, get yourself a bird, have kids, then keep your head down and wait for your time to be up.

    Sounds good enough to me, and to be honest, siting their typing on your PC, talking with us lot, with your biggest problem being how to get out of a trap on Half Life II, whilst there are people living in filthy mud huts wondering when they will next be able to have a drink of clean water, it should be enough for you as well.

    If people from the North of England are prepared to get on with that, then I'm sure you can make do and crack a smile, mate.

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    You're not alone hun, plenty of people are like that, me included... I don't know why i'm here, or what i'm doing and I know that whatever i do is meaningless in the scheme of things.

    My advice is to do something you really enjoy. I went trampolining yesterday, something I haven't done in 5 years, and absolutely loved it. (although I've pulled muscles i didn't know i had!)
    Think of something that you enjoyed doing as a child, and go out and do it. Being an adult sux, mainly because of the repetitiveness, but it doesn't mean that we always have to do adulty things (although some of them are fun!)!
    Don't get yourself stuck in a rut, coz it'll only make it much deeper.

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    what you need is another hobby pal

    Turn off the PC for ONE DAY...get your walking boots on....and go and wander.

    Streets....hills....doesnt matter where. Take a bottle of water, and some food.....go wandering.

    Doesnt matter if its raining....its BETTER if its raining....

    kjust sod off out for a walk and BE OUT ALL DAY...leave at 9 am....come back at about 7 pm....be out ALL DAY.

    Look around fella....breathe it all in. Even if its streets. Wander. Walk. Even if you NORMALLY go into town on a bus....walk. Walk all day....only dtop to eat and drink.

    When yuo have walked AL DAY....and you get home....

    it'll be alright

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    Either that or you'll get mugged.

    I suggest a girl. A girlfriend will give you something to do. (And maybe something else if you're lucky)

    Any decent birds you could have a crack at?

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    Quote Originally Posted by Vaul
    Either that or you'll get mugged.

    I suggest a girl. A girlfriend will give you something to do. (And maybe something else if you're lucky)

    Any decent birds you could have a crack at?
    You should take some of your own advice stew

    Myth, don't worry about that. I normally feel like that whenever I get low on sugar. As Zak said, just go out and meet people. Spend a day away from the PC and go and get some fresh air. You will be amazed at how much good it will do.

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    To be totally harsh, get over it. Sitting around and whining about it isn't going to do any good. You need to get out the house, go and socialise some more, go and find something to do which isn't related to computers and enjoy it. Put a bit of chaos into your life.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Shogun
    You should take some of your own advice stew
    Hehe, very true.

    Girls I do alright at, just the whole 'girlfriend' thing gets on my nerves. I think I'll play the field until I'm 50.

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    Quote Originally Posted by PrivatePyle
    Get a mountain bike and go out and ride into some tree's, it kicked me out of depression.

    Oh and the meaning of life is 42.
    That is also what I do, whenever there is something wrong I just go out on a long bike ride to a random place. Just either know the area you are in very well or take a map. Also with winter kicking in always take your lights and a waterproof

    :edit: also don't do what I did last week, go out in the pouring rain, down a hill at 35mph, and fall off. Even though i slid down the hill for about 8 meters it still hurt.
    Last edited by Shogun; 21-11-2004 at 03:47 PM.

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