right. not wanting to turn this forum into a teen angst spot (partly because i am neither a teen, nor in angst), i am wondering what you would do in this situation. im not asking advice - i know what im going to do - im just curious as to what other people would do...
been seeing a girl for about 3 or 4 weeks - not bf/gf but seeing a lot of each other and being very couply. unusually for me i feel some kind of 'sparkle' when im around her - ive only felt this before with a couple of other girls (neither of whome i was lucky enough to date). The girl in question split from a long term (>3 years) boyfriend not too long (<3 months) ago, because he's moving away (or something, not too sure). Anyways, shes told me she doesnt want to see anyone right now, cos she's very busy (which she is, got tonnes of cw on) and because she's not as over her x as she would like. I accept these are the reasons she doesnt want to see me, rather than just giving me a cold shoulder cos she doesnt fancy me or whatever. Now the way i see it im left with a few options. bare in mind that i dont normally have much problem pulling girls, or going out with girls for a few weeks, but i dont think i have ever been in love. also, i'm open to a relationship
1. just be a friend to her, live my life normally otherwise, date other girls and see what happens with them.
2. be a friend to her, date other people but hope for the best, and if she changes her mind then go with her
3. be a friend to her, but dont see other people and hope she changes her mind
or maybe something else..as i said im pretty sure what im gonna do but what would joo do?
Hugh
(ps yeah i know wwjd is a hippy christian thing)