depends on where you are trying to ping to.
its also looking at a trace route to see where the delay is occuring.
eg a trace route to www.bbc.co.uk
Code:
Tracing route to www.bbc.net.uk [212.58.224.36]
over a maximum of 30 hops:
1 <1 ms <1 ms <1 ms SpeedTouch.lan [192.168.1.1]
2 31 ms 14 ms 15 ms my external IP
3 24 ms 27 ms 23 ms eth3-8.cr1.uk5.systems.pipex.net [62.241.161.29]
4 20 ms 22 ms 22 ms ge-0-0-1-0.cr1.he1.systems.pipex.net [62.241.161
.157]
5 19 ms 18 ms 24 ms xpe-gw0.prt0.thdo.bbc.co.uk [217.79.160.123]
6 20 ms 18 ms 16 ms 212.58.238.153
7 21 ms 20 ms 20 ms www6.thdo.bbc.co.uk [212.58.224.36]
Trace complete.
I get between 14-20ms pings to the bbc's web server from my 512k Pipex line.
what happened if you do the same ?
go to a command prompt and type tracert www.bbc.co.uk
also if you let me know which server you are connecting to for gaming I'll try a trace to it and see if its the server or somethign at your end.