Well, depends how you look at it.
I had auto-updates off. Totally off. Nothing, but NOTHING got installed without my say-so. I also had 'dial-home disabled', though not for the reason people often do that.
HOWEVER ..... I kept a very watchful eye on security patches, critical updates, etc.
Then, I install what I want to install, when it suits me.
One implication of that is the transference of responsibility for not having things fully patched to me. I take control, so I bear the responsibility if I get bitten by not having something installed.
See, my attitude is it's MY machine, not Microsofts. So I decide what, when and if something gets installed. It means committing MY time to keeping up with what's going on, but it also means I can ignore updates for things I don't, and probably never have used, and may even have stripped out.
But most critically it means I control WHEN system updates are done.
And how.
My normal technique was to leave all but critical updates, and then have a patch-Saturday periodically, during which I'd :-
1) Image an OS drive to an identical (make/model/size) "COPY" drive kept for this purpose
2) Remove "Master" drive.
3) Insert "Master COPY"
4) Run updates.
5) Test to see if it screwed up anything critical?
6) Only when comprehensively satisfied on 5) do I update "Master" .... and only after having backed up all data and imaged previous version, just in case.
As I say, my machine, my choice, my responsibility.
Do I recommend this for Joe Average User? Hell, no.
But by MS effectively blocking me from preventing THEM deciding what and when to update, at the drop of some MS drone's hat, they take control away from me, and utterly prevent me from controlling HOW I update.
So i don't agree, I'm afraid. I USED to have complete control. Now I have (or would if I'd migrated to W10) little or no control. And THAT is a deal-killer, a red line, a total non-starter and MS blew past it.
I understand why They wanted a homogenous userbase. It simplifies updates, patches and general developnent no end. Trouble is, it presumes THEY have the right to dictate not only what, but how, and more or less when. And that is one whopping great MS presumption (among many) too far. Way, way, WAY
too far.