right, bit of an update, think I may have been a bit of a monkey describing this.
The access point has a dhcp *client* service - i can't find where where I can make it a dhcp server in it's configuration, even though it is supposed to work as one
- will look into this further.
I've given the laptop with the problems a static IP address, just like the other two computers, and the access point.
I *can* ping the access point from the wired connection
The laptop is configured for infrastructure, as opposed to computer-to-computer
The Access Point is not blocking connection by MAC Address whatsoever.
Think that's everything.