My money's are low. Important.
My daughter spends 4/5 nights a week at my house. I pay my ex money for her up keep but she also gets child benefits etc. So I think I'm getting a pretty bum deal here. More to the fact I want to take my daughter to Florida (mum's paying I couldn't afford to take her) but ex has said no, then eventually "ok, but I'm coming too and staying in a different hotel" I shizzle you not.
So basically. How do I go about not giving my ex a chunk of money eat h month when I provide just as much care and time for my daughter (before anybody suggests talking it over so i don't pay my mutual agreement please remove fingers from keyboard)