Right,
I could find the temp reading on ASUS Probe, unless it was the MB reading, which was just 45C, but the heatsink was definatly hotter than that.
I took off the heatsink, it was similar to the one in your pic, except it didnt have any copper. Also, the spread on the paste was even and correct. But, as i had taken it off i thought i better take the old stuff off and put on some new stuff (OCZ Ultra Silver 5+). However this wasn't as easy as i expected. Using 3 different types of nail polish remover, some sand paper, tissues and a wire brush i managed to finally get it off and cleaned up. I then fitted the heatsink back on and it's just as hot
Now i have a desktop fan blowing onto it and its at 44C, but if i take that off it goes up to 60-65C
A lot of the aftermarket NB coolers wont fit on my motherboard because of my CPU cooler being so big.