Just as I was about to order my new HTPC I realised that it might not work properly with my existing universal remote. It's one of those simple all-in-one jobs. I have a Harmony but it's not wife-friendly so it's somewhere in a cupboard. Anyway, two questions:

Can I get an IR dongle and have it control my software (XBMC)?
Can I get the remote to wake XP from sleep mode?

Thanks in advance.