The ISK100 does have a slim 100mm fan; I wouldn't say it's absolutely silent but because it's the only fan in my room, it's also the only thing in my room that makes noise so I do notice it if I am doing work etc. If yours is going to be a HTPC, it should be fine.
If you're only going to be running XBMC then you don't need such high spec (yes I think an i3 2100 is rather high spec
) so it's personally I'd pick one of the last two. Depends on if you would rather fuss around with rebuilding, or just buy a slower solution that works out of box.