This. The Phenom II is only rated for 1333Mhz, so you're asking the memory controller to drive well above its rated frequency. You might get away with 1600MHz on the memory, but you're likely to find your machine is more stable at 1333MHz. And as kalniel also points out, you'll not notice any significant performance difference with slower memory - in fact
iirc the Phenom II runs better with slower memory with tighter latencies. What you might find is that since your memory is rated at 9-10-9-27 timings at 1866MHz, you might be able to run it at something like 8-8-8-24 at 1333MHz. There's more to making your computer faster than just ramping clock speeds higher and higher