That's a lot of opinions and suggestions. Thank you everyone. I guess I'm going to need to make some serious compromise either on my ability to game (although I do have a PS4) or on whether a Mac is my primary machine (I also do lots of Photoshop/Lightroom/InDesign stuff as well). Based on that compromise, I think I'll either end up saying goodbye to proper gaming or I'll have to just use a Mac when I have to, and to develop in Windows (ugh).
Thank you again for your thoughts; please do keep them coming ... I am reading every one with interest