Right then.
So Windows doesn't load up with a graphics card, which I just discovered... however, I did install the Vmware drivers.. and it loaded!
So I connected to it via UltraVNC... now it connected, however, the screen goes all dodgy (see screenshot):
But it does show some things when you go over them (see system tray). So I'm wondering if it's something to do with that UltraVNC hook tray, with its graphics driver... so I will uninstall it now, and install the standard VNC.
Will keep you updated.