i use:
http://www.scan.co.uk/Products/Produ...oductID=332109
and i cant sell it to you enough, that picture is of the old model, the updated one (V3) looks much smarter & is a lot more robust(old one, the control box split around the screws - so i experienced both). I use it for music(bassy), games, films(5.1 surround) & team speak. It works flawlessy for all of them.
And the best thing about it.....it vibrates(can be turned off), and believe me, now i see why women kick up such a fuss over this kind of thing, boy will it make you smile! :D