Not sure if this should really be a Windows or Linux thread tbh, but....
The background: When I first went self employed many years ago I was doing quite a bit of web design and services, so I shelled out for VPS and have spent several happy years running a Linux VPS. When the self-employed work dried up and I went back to full time, I had a couple of critical sets of email service and some website still hosted on the server, that I've been gradually trying to move off. I've pretty much got the last of other people's stuff off there now, so I want to get rid of the VPS (far too expensive to justify) and run the services myself (hurrah for fttc and static IP addresses ).
I'm about to knock myself up a web server, and having been a .NET chappy for the last 4 years I'm going for Windows Web Server (it helps that I've got access to it dirt cheap ). Now, I'm a Yorkshireman, so I'm not going to shell out on Exchange server! I've been mulling over several alternative options in terms of handling email. I'd love some advice from you knowledgeable hexus types
1) Install suitable mail handling software on my Windows box, including imap/pop3 servers. Having run mail services on a VPS before all the mail services were already set up and running, so all I had to worry about was setting up accounts. Ideally I'd like something free, with decent graphical tools for all the main management tasks.
2) Set up a second server running linux to handle mail services. Tempting as it gives me the opportunity to claim both linux and Windows admin experience if I ever go back into server admin professionally (but Gods I hope not ), but will mean running two servers at home with the additional power draw that implies. But I can just download a suitable linux distro and fire it up, and I'm pretty comfortable with that.
3) Stop faffing around stick email through Google Apps for Domains. This may be the easiest option (I've not played with apps for domains yet), and none of the domains I run will need more than a few users, so it's suitable for the free version. On the other hand, it means all the emails will go through Google's hands, and be subject to whatever nefarious purposes they have. I'm not sure I'm too bothered about that, really, but not having the experience of Apps for Domains leaves me a bit wary of putting potentially mission-critical email through it.
So, opinions? Better 1), 2) or 3)? Or am I missing a really obvious option I've not covered?