Ok, so firstly it seems impossible to just 'play a game with a mate', they still have the old lobby system which looks exactly the same as previous versions with one exception. It doesn't work, invitations were greyed out in match rooms and we could see. no way to view the available match rooms. In the end we used quick match to get a game going in an empty lobby which worked. We played a game which was full of lag, barely playable really. Has anybody else experienced that? could have been his flat mate using iplayer and downloading stuff.
Tried another game with flatmates downloads off and after 2 attempts we couldn't find each other in fairly empty lobbies (were no properly empty ones) and was matched up with players not even in the same lobby. Even more annoyingly you can't cancel a game if it's with somebody you want to play, you have to reboot the game!!!!
I mean wtf?
Did they do any testing at all?
Did they have even one design meeting about the UI?
Other than that I am enjoying single player, but the online tonight was shocking and enough to convince me that next year no matter what I am going to learn to play FIFA if they don't sort it out.