that is one way to look at it. At the same time, it is not the only way to look at it, and in exploring the details in more depth, it would become quite clear that such a position is flawed. No criticism, but it takes certain ideas from the Bible but neglects others. The Bible has to be taken as a whole, for only then does it make sense. Right from Genesis it becomes clear why God made the world, what man's place is in it, how we relate to Him and to each other etc. The rest of the Bible is simply about trying to get man back into perfect relationship to Him, God chasing after humankind.
If we reject that, if we do not want a relationship with Him (which brings ultimate fulfillment, peace, joy etc) then that decision is taken seriously. Hell is to be in a place without Him. It is a matter of choice. Whether there is literal fire or simply a black void or some other intepretation is open to debate, but if God is goodness, to be separate from Him is to be in a place devoid of goodness. Devoid of peace, of love, of joy - those are attributes of God. If He were cruel or sadistic, He would be like other (fictional gods) who remain aloof in an ivory tower, without any concern for His creation. Instead, we have a God who chases His creation right from the word go, and ultimately submits Himself to His own creation such is His love, in order to redeem His creation free of charge. Doesn't sound very sadistic to me. He offers His love free, His forgiveness free, but He does not force anyone to accept it.
{quote]Interesting you should say that all those many thousands of other religions are not as valid, are you saying that some ideas are less valid than others? (a sentiment I agree with as stated earlier) I think the idea of a virgin birth is patently absurd, therefore its less valid than the idea that Mary was playing away and far from the innocent virginal chosen one the bible makes out, wouldn't you agree?