It's just an analogy from me to you, though, not a comparison with independence.
Given that the "no" campaign are trying to argue for no, how are they supposed to do it positively? Their whole point is that independence is worse than union, that it has a large downside. How do they point out the downside without pointing out the downside?
How about this .... you're thinking of changing job. I point out that the new job has longer hours, pays less, involves much longer commuting time and that that will be expensive, that the switch to shift work and doing nights doesn't suit everybody, there's no works canteen and that I know the person that will be your new boss and they're a right bleeeeep.
All that is negative. It's also just plain true.
Now, just maybe, the job your thinking off is what you've always dreamt of doing and you'll put up with all the above to live your dream. And maybe you'll be working harder, have bleep for a boss and be worse off, but be happier .
By pointing out all the negatives, I'm not trying to tell you what to do, or making a value judgement on your future happiness. I'm just trying to make sure any decision you take is based on an informed choice, because the recruiter offering you the job is certajnly singing the jobs praises, and either not mentioning the downside at all, or glossing over parts and misleading on other parts.
Is me pointing out the long list of negatives being negative, or is it just being truthful, and making sure you decide, but eyes-wide-open, and not just bathed in the rosy glow of a silver-tongued recruiter that just wants what HE wants, and doesn't care about your future happiness, because he'll have got his reward just by you taking the job.
Bear in mind, my personal stance is that I'd rather Scotland stayed in the UK, but NOT if it isn't the wishes of the Scottish people. I want you to stay, but not against you will. There will be costs involved that the UK has to bear if Scotland leaves, but they're worth paying if leaving proves to be the will of the people. I want you in, but not as a captive.
I'd say the same about Gibraltar, the Falklands and, yes, NI. I want them 'in', as it applies differently to each, but only if that's what the people want. I think leaving would be a mistake, but if it is, it's for the people of Scotland to make, and at least for those that want independence regardless of other costs or benefits, it wouldn't be a mistake, regardless of other costs.
Also, I've heard the no campaign emphasaise, time and again, theythink Scotland is better off 'in'. And given that that's a decision between status quo, or a change, I can't see how you could argue that out is worse without outlining precisely why out will ve worse.
Again, compare Salmond to Carney, Osborne, etc. The latter have outlined exactly why, for instance, a currency union is not in RofUKs best interests, and therefore isn't happening, while Salmond's response is the political equivalent of sticking his fingers in his ears and shouting LA-LA-LAAAA-LA-LA.
If the no campaign is negative, so is Salmond, because he won't engage with the notion that the RofUK's interest isn't what he says it is just because he says it is. Cor him to dismiss the broadside against currency union as bluff and bullying is incredibly negative. A positive aporoach would be .... we still think we will be able to reach agreement, but if not, we'll do .... explain plan B.
As it is, you, and everyone else, are being expected to make a very important decision on the basis that, at least on this very important issue, you'll get a negotiated agreement that the other party has told you, categorically, unequivocally and, erm, ... positively .... is simply not going to happen. Hardly a positive way to deal with it by Salmond.