so i guess i'm in love!

[Agent]

Originally posted by LoopyJuice
Say goodbye to your money seriously, good luck!

and your time, including what you consider to be your "free" time. Your never free
If we dont see you for a while, we'll understand that shes got you locked up. Good luck escaping

[Jimmy Little]

thanks for your advice guys, she has already realized I’m not after one thing! which has gone down well, so i shall talk more with her, if she is the one then she will understand... oh well off to bed!

[Trash Man]

Well I dunno what to say really. Am I the only one who thinks you are mad? I mean, sex is a VERY important part of a relationship. You could end up spending the rest of you like with someone that you are just not compatible with in the bedroom department, and then that in turn will put even more unneeded stress on you and your partner.

I respect you for your beliefs and what you are doing, but there is just no way in the world I go get married to someone unless I know them inside and out, so to speak (Unless it was Angelina Jolie )

[headbrace]

I think the decision is upto you, and as evereyone agrees, If you relationship is serious, then it should pose no problem. It is good tho in this day and age to see someone who both believes in something and is willing to act upon for themselves

[directhex]

i feel a debate brewing. to Question Time, Trash Man!!!

--jo

[Private_mojo]

good idea

[Jimmy Little]

There is no need to debate, I’m not pushing this down anyone’s face, these are my views and i will share them if asked...

The average married couple spend 5% of there time in bed over the course of an average lifetime.... so building a relationship that is based on 'good sex' is like building a house on the sand.... I’m looking to build something more than that......

And my view on ‘good sex’ is it will be good if you both love each other….. no matter what…. Because it is the act of love that makes it work not lust….

i have not been a Christian all my life and have tasted sex before, and it has been pleasurable, but in relationships that have broken up, i have been left pretty empty.... and i HONESTY do regret ever sleeping with anyone....

Jim

[fondie]

but you say you love her already...

[Punky]

buy her a chastity belt for a pressie, she should realise then and you won't have to do any embarrasing explaining.

[Slick]

I wouldn't tell her like it's a confession, then it'll look like you were trying to hide it before, just try to get a conversation going about beliefs etc and slip it in there.

I respect you for doing this though, I'm a christian and still have pre-marital relations, but I'm in a long term relationship and can't see myself getting married in the next few years.

[Swafe]

bye time
bye money

TBH, I could never wait till marridge mate

well done, unless shes a slag (which i doubt she is) she'll understand, women arnt like us men, you will soon ifnd out

[Jimmy Little]

yeah i shall bring it up tonight and try not to freak her out!

[Slick]

so how did it go? let us know when you get back

[Nemeliza]

Originally posted by Trash Man
(Unless it was Angelina Jolie )

You just say that cos u know u cant have her

Anyway to the point:
Speak to her and more importantly let her talk back. Its the only way you will find out how she truely feels about you. I wont wish u luck cos that shouldnt come into it, But may your god stand with you.

[spikegifted]

Originally posted by Bobby Sixkiller
met a girl... she like me i like her... cry all the time thinking about her! can't get her off my mind!.......... now i need to tell her that i don't believe in sex before marriage! hmmm could all end in tears! Kinda should done this earlier!

Now all you need to do is to convert her to become a geek also, then you'd be made for each other.

[Jimmy Little]

Originally posted by spikegifted
Now all you need to do is to convert her to become a geek also, then you'd be made for each other.

she works with dreamweaver! so half way there!