Hello all,
I thought I'd sound a few people out on the ebay feedback system, I've seen a few threads on this in the paste.
today I fell foul to my first genuine ebay time waster.
I needed an "ok" laptop for a project I'm working on. I found what seemed to be an "ok" laptop at a pretty good price. Now for the problems, the seller had a feedback of "1" but his other sale was for a compaq IPAQ at couple of hundered quid, and that buyer had good feedback. I took a gamble and jumped in and won. I paid for the item straight away with paypal.
I then recived this mail
At this time it was a little too late as I'd already made the payment straight after the auction.
Hi. Thank you for your payment. I feel very silly : I have forgotten my paypal password, and I must have missed a letter in the clues I gave, as paypal won't re-set it. I think you can cancel your payment, as I haven't been able to accept it. Could you send it to nigel.turner67@ntlworld.com instead ? (my friend's address).
Thank you.
Ben
The next mail was
so all was well....hi again. IGNORE MY LAST EMAIL !! I'VE MANAGED TO REMEMBER THE PASSWORD !
until
of course I couldn't get the money back as he'd already accepted it, however I didn't think this a problem as my paypal account was verified with a good score and my ebay feedback is good (100) so I suggested as he could see the money but couldn't get his hands on it for 4 days (not my fault) he ship the laptop as he would afterall have my home address, and could see the money in his account, and knew I couldn't with draw it.I am still having problems with my paypal, as the bank account wasn't verified. It worked well with my last sale, so I don't understand why it's a problem all of a sudden. Apparently it takes 4 or 5 days to sort it, as I have to wait for them to put money in my account and then I have to tell them how much the amount is. I am going on holiday at the end of the week, so nothing can be sorted until I get back late august. I'm sure you don't want to wait all this time, so if you still want the laptop, try getting your money back from paypal, and send it to nigel.turner67@ntlworld.com It should work then. Let me know if this is ok with you.
Regards
next....
at this point my suspicions where altered......if he could login why was his account locked ? so I opened a dispute with paypal to freeze the transaction while we sorted this out. I informed the user of this. I also requested he gave me a phone call so we could sort this out.Hi
I am trying to issue a refund ; I can't see how at the moment, but I will contact paypal to tell them. They have locked my account, I think it's because it took me several attempts to remember the password. I haven't accepted the payment, it was accepted automatically. The problems occured when I tried transferring it. I can't access the money at all, so you will understand I will wait until the transfer is in process to send the laptop. I have seen a link to "cancel payment" ; try using that one ?
Doing my best to sort it, but as I said, I am limited in time, so might be best to cancel payment with paypal for now.
his reply.....
I then queried why all of a sudden he was going on holiday "now" instead of the end of the week ? and explained that I would not be agreeing to an mutual agreement as this wasn't mutual, less then 2 hours after the auciton end you are mailing me with "failing to deliver", mutual is where we both agree, your forcing this on me, and I don't see why you shouldn't have to pay the ebay fees as its you his withdrawing the item. I also informed him that he couldn't send me non-payment warnings as ebay and paypal both had it on record I paid 6 minutes after the auction end so would not entertain that, so please don't try to put me in a position of "blame"I'm at work right now, but I will try and ring tonight. I got an email from paypal saying you had filed a dispute. I had emailed them about issuing you a refund as well, so you will get your money back. There has been a change of plans, and I'm going tomorrow, so filing the claim was the right thing to do. What I will ask of you though, is that I will file a claim to get my ebay fees back, saying it was mutual decision so that you don't get a warning for not paying. I will relist the laptop when I get back. I'm sorry about all this : it is really putting me off using paypal again !!!
At this point my suspicions are very high, so I lodged a complain with ebay and got the users contact details....surprise surpise his phone number didn't exist something like 02345678910
his next response was lip service
I again pointed out this was not paypals fault, this was his fault for not being ready to sell it, and that this sort of weak attitude towards honouring the sale would not help. I then offered to go and get the laptop and lose the shipping fees and offered to give him a post dated cheque for his return date so that IF the paypal money went astray (impossible) he would have my cheque that he could cash and dispute with the bank, as he was only about 1.5 hours away from me.The only thing I can suggest if you absolutely want that laptop, is that when I relist it, you contact me and I will end the auction early and you pay me the amount of the 1st auction. This is the best I can do for now. I will try and ring tonight, this is very bad timing, I wasn't planning to go away until the end of the week but something has come up and I haven't got the time to deal with all this. I have no access to computers while away, so can't do much during that time. I can understand you being unhappy with all this : I'm unhappy too : I needed that money for my holiday too ! Paypal is the only one to blame here.
the next mail finished it for me
this just stinks of timewaster/con
Paypal has put a hold on that payment : I won't be able to get the money. I am sorry, but I am not prepared to let the laptop go when I can't get the money. The address on ebay is still my old address as I had to put the address that matched my credit card statement, and I haven't changed it yet. So I'm nowhere near Southampton anyway.
I've an open distpute with paypal and ebay which I'm sure will be resolved in my favour (hence me not agreeing the mutual agreement) however what i'd really like to do is leave negative feedback so that others don't fall into this timewasters trap, however he will just return the favour....because he will despite the fact that I've been really good and tried to be helpful on this.
what is the point of the ebay feedback system is people are worried too much about their own record to leave negative feedback for timewasters/cons
surly ebay should moderate this in a better way. eg: is a dispute falls your way then the loser should not be allowed to leave feedback, as he's obviously going to be bitter...or you can explain to ebay and they'll remove your feedback but leave his. Something like that
the feeback system is failing.