Under options about diverting calls to answer phone: Set your phone to “accept calls from list” (or a similar like option). People on the list get through, anyone else (including those withholding their numbers) get diverted to answer phone. I think it might only be ten or so people you can list, but that’s enough for emergencies, everyone else can wait till the morning. You can link this option to your profiles, so you can create a night time profile.
Phones really should have an option to divert all calls from withheld numbers and also an option to only accept calls from people in my phone book.
I thought MSN were closing (have all ready closed) all their non-supervised chat rooms. They say it is to stop paedophiles, which is probably partly true. I suspect it’s also got something to do with them worrying about silly lawsuits in the futures blaming them for the paedophiles actions.