Yeah I get ya, but, the problem is with Elite that some people want to play game until they complete it, with Elite, you can't really, there's always something to do, which makes it more realistic (not that I've flown about in space, but you get the idea) but it gets dull..
Maybe a load of us should all get on at the same time and see if it's better if there's a load of you and its more sociable?