Well, glad she came back Burtie, all women are the same it would appear.
My missus and I have broken up five times and everytime I wanted her back so bad, but each time it grew less and less.
Whilst you two are presumably older than me and my missus and you have children so it won't be noticeable to you, but I noticed I don't have that giddy feeling of being in love with her anymore, I do still feel as blissfully in love with her, just not blindly in love.
Nothing much has changed but with so many things that she has done, its as though shes actively been trying to destroy our relationship, I've never seen someone try so hard, LOL.
I hate her for every single time we've broken up, but I find I still feel the warmth and the love to stay with her as she is still a great GREAT lass .
However, she realised about a year ago that she actually can't bare to lose me, just as well, shes only gotten pregnant , yet I feel if we broke up again, I'll let her go as I can't be arsed to deal with the worst bits of relationships.