Originally Posted by
snootyjim
It only hits the car side on for a fraction of a second, when the car is perfect in-line with the gritter.
Let me try and rephrase it.
You're following a gritter. Grit is constantly flying up and hitting your car, even when you're some distance behind it. The grit isn't actually moving that quickly itself - let's call it 3 mph.
So if you parked near it, with the car moving at 0 mph, the car would be hit by grit at 3 mph.
Now let's consider a different scenario. The grit is magically hanging in the air, moving at 0 mph. A car is driven into the grit at 30 mph - so the speed of the collision is 30 mph. Which bit was moving is irrelevant - the speed of the collision is what matters.
So if we now combine the two - the grit is moving backwards at 3 mph, and the car is moving forwards at 30 mph, the speed of the collision is 33 mph. So the faster the car moves, the faster the collision is. The faster the collision, the more energy that is expended on the body of the car as the grit is brought to an abrupt stop. That energy will be passed into the paintwork, and if sufficiently high will rip it off the metal. So the slower you go, the lower the speed of the collision, and the less energy there will be, so the less damage that will be caused.
Admittedly, for a fraction of a second you'll be perfectly side on and grit will hit the side of the car, at which point the car's speed is more or less negligible, but it's such a short space of time that it's not worth worrying about. The approach is the problem.