Hi Hexites,
I'm really unsure where to search and post/ask this so I've decided to post here.
Basically my girlfriend slipped on ice on Thursday at about 2pm and broke both the bones in her forearm, the radius and the ulna (I think that's what they're called). Unfortunately this is a "low priority" emergency so no ambulances came to pick her up after calling for one so I got a cab and got her to the nearest hospital. Just for info, we are only first year uni students so we're quite young still.
I understand it's quite busy right now but it took until 5pm for her to receive a caste and 7:30pm for her to get a bed in the hospital and during all that time she was just grimmacing and suffering in pain. Is this wait really normal?
She wasn't allowed to eat or drink after 11pm on that Thursday as they said she might have an operation so she cannot eat/drink orally, "Nil by mouth". I understand the food bit, but surely drinking should be allowed?!
Yesterday (Friday), in the afternoon they told her that she will have the operation to put a metal plate to hold the broken bones in her forearm but, without notice, they just cancelled the operation and walked out without saying anything, leaving her just waiting there after getting her hopes up. She then had to wait till the night before she was fed merely sandwiches in the evening before returning to the "Nil by mouth" situation.
This morning, they said she can have the operation again but then soon cancelled it again.
Seriously, is this right? We've wondered about changing hospitals but I fear this will affect her "location" on the operation waiting list, and also the journey will probably be painful for her arm. We're really not happy with how she is treated in this hospital though.
Is this whole "situation" normal? I can understand that due to the weather the hospital is probably bursting with patients right now but surely a broken forearm is no little matter? Especially as they were enphasising how unstable the bones in her arm are...
I probably sound very frustrated right now so do please accept my apologies, but I am not sure how to proceed with this matter; do I just let her wait in the hospital and suffer because there is no better alternative?