ok well it didnt take long for another reboot to occur, half way through browing a website and listening to music.
This time I have left the QPI/VTT voltage at 1.34V and I turned off X.M.P. but doing so introduced a memory frequency problem. Because it only lets me change the multiplier of the ram frequency at x14 it is about 1866MHz and at x16 its about 2224MHz. well I didnt want to push it over the rated 2000MHz so I put it to x14 even tho that defeats the point of this expensive RAM.
I also noticed there is a serperate QPI voltage, do you know what that one is for? the only way to change it is by turning on the X.M.P