Ahh Welcome to the World of Apple.
This kind of rubbish is something us old time Home computer users have had to put up with for years.
You now have 2 companies forcing you to be loyal to them and them only.
Sony & Apple.
Give me Microsoft any day.
if you want a phone that lets you play downloaded music from any source or movies that you can move from one format to another, you also get software support from 100s of developers plus many more features that this non 3G, mono Bluetooth headset piece of carp.
Get an HTC/Generic Microsoft Mobile phone; at least once you have bought it, it belongs to you!
It will give you every thing you get with Apple but no headache oh yeah and don't forget you can also install your Satnav on them as well.
Why pay a fortune for a rotten apple, when there is far nicer fruit in the barrel?