As per the title really.
I've been experiencing periodic high pings when attempting to connect to game servers, even in the UK. Usually I get kicked from servers for having an average ping of over 200ms which is no fun. I have run PingPlotter at various times of the week and during high usage periods (pretty much most evenings and weekends) my ping to servers, web pages, Google etc is in the 100 to 200+ range with some packet loss and occasional ping spikes to 1000ms+.
I'm using a wireless router (Virgin Media's ADSL netgear) but the hop from my PC to the router login is a steady 2-3ms.
Before I waste my time and money engaging in a battle of intellects with Virgin's support staff does anyone have any knowledge of issues like this being improved upon or am I doomed to having a largely useless internet connection during the times I am actually at home?
Just to note: I get around 3mb bandwidth which is what www.samknows.com predicts and have probably only had to reboot the router at most twice in the 6 months it's been up and running. Which is great in some ways but I want less ping. Please.